Yes, I'd wait to be overly excited. Rather wait and be safe they be devastated and put in a bad mood.

I found out it was a girl right when I turned 14 weeks, but I keep stressing what if it's not because that's what I'm really hoping for. I'm just waiting to be told at 20 weeks it's a boy. It just feels too surreal

This is my 3rd baby so last time for me. I know a lot of people get mad and say to just be thankful but it's so hard when you are or were so set on having a certain one. Besides everything my mil bought for my baby when we were told was a girl goes to my sil who has a 3 month old girl and she already spent thousands of dollars on her and said she would get the babies equal amounts of stuff but now she gets all the rest too and now she's not wanting to spend much. which that's fine but there's too much going on to not be depressed about.

I was wanting a boy so I was disappointed when I first found out she was a girl. I don't know if I will have another baby but if I do I hope next time will be my boy!