Oh hell no. When they start talking about people's kids is when it gets dangerous.

I totally understand and I'm pretty sure they been having sex way before marriage I just hate when older people and simple minded little females run their mouth

THANK YOU! My boyfriend and I have been together almost 4 years and still get kinda judged by it. We're expecting our first child and everyone asks "when are you getting married" or says "oh my, I thought you two were married already" tf?! We've been together longer than some marriages we know, we'll get married when he's ready to propose and when our son is old enough to be a part of our wedding!