it kind of bothers me when other moms say they would never wish a cesarean on someone or that they…
it kind of bothers me when other moms say they would never wish a cesarean on someone or that they regret theirs.. I realize it's a tough recovery but why be so harsh about it? all I asked was about inducing medications bc my Dr has possible concerns the babies head won't engage into my canal and we discussed that I absolutely did not want any inducing medications in my body and the only other option was a cesarean... I'd rather deal with that pain of a recovery than push my body beyond it being ready or put any distress on my baby.. if his heads too big to engage in my canal there's a likely chance of him getting stuck.. I'm not ok with that.. even the Dr said a stuck baby is every OBs top 3 fear bc they have limited ways to get baby out..
One girl said I sounded ridiculous for preferring a cesarean to get my baby out quickly vs not wanting the added pain for inducing medicines forcing my body against its will and wouldn't have an empowering experience of natural birth.. uhm I already had my empowering experience with my first.. step off your soapbox.
Courtney·
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I'm all for natural (plan to do it myself) but if it's something that might put you or your baby in danger, I don't see a problem with choosing cesarean. Sometimes it really is the better option and people are just ignorant! Stick to your own path girl! 👍🏻
Ashley ·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (11 нед.)
Some people see it as making a woman less of a woman but what they don't get is yeah they might not have the pain before the baby they have it after I talked to a friend who had her daughter which this was her fourth and last she was in more pain then I was at the same time and she was more post op then I was just ignore them
flower_princess·
Мама сына-младенца
I had contractions at 36 weeks dilated to 4.5 they stopped my contractions 37 weeks I started to get contractions again dilated 5cm so they gave me pitocin I think that's the name was dilating ok but water never broke so they broke my water, I can say my son is a healthy baby. Also didn't get the epidural.
Gabby·
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im sorry people are such ass hats girl 😕 people like to be all up in your business for some reason! the goal is simple get baby out safely! that's all that matters. it does not matter the delivery method, whether medicated or unmedicated, whether assisted or unassisted, laying down or standing up, or male or female doc! it pisses me off that people try to break down other moms! everyone's body and baby is different. if for some reason I need a c section, that's fine I just want my baby to be safe. Why that's so hard for people to stomach..? No idea!
fretina·
i look at as no matter how u do it that baby got to get here an u gone feel it regardless so i gove respect on both ends
Kristy·
I'm getting ready for my third csection I have no choice as into how I have my babies and I wouldn't change it for the world I've had two emergency csections and this one planned due to my age and fibroids it does not matter how are babies are born just as long as baby and mommy are safe!!!!
Kristy·
Plus those who say we have no pain before ummmm wow I wish I went thru labor and my water breaking everything a normal birth does but in the end a day later I might add my fibroids were in the birth canal blocking my babies birth ( and I might add 7 lbs of fibroids which means between the baby and them I carried a 15 lb child or equivalent to big twins) lol then had to recover longer but so worth it my first is almost 13 and perfect in my eyes smart tall handsome polite yup proud mama hang in there
Nadenka·
Honestly women will say shit because 1. they secretly wish they can get something , in this case a c section , but are not qualified or 2. Heard too much info, thus creating an opinion based on someone's else's fears, and pains. Being mis informed and then continuing to make other women feel bad about what they want is plain stupidity. Legit ignore them girly!! ,, there's always one idiot for every 5 normal ones .
Nadenka·
My friend right?... One day she gave me HELL because after I married I was stay at home wifey.. Well she goes to say how can I be so lazy/ put it all on my husband! Etc.. Omg was I mad! Like 1. It ain't your business 2. My husband prefers it and it makes him happy to kno he can support me 3. Didn't just 2 months ago you say you wished to be able to be a stay at home mom????????? ... Basically foreward 2 months ahead she befriended my niece and tells her how she's so tired of working full time, problems, etc. lol sorry but my point is ,,, she was pissed at me that I got more luxury so to speak, yet in stead of being happy for me she gave me shit about it! These are my pet peeve people 😡😡😡😡hate their guts when they do this.
emily·
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My opinion is if a c section is necessary to get my baby out safely and there's no other option, I will gladly do it. Of course I would rather have him vaginally both because I've never had surgery so it scares me a little bit and because of the recovery, but if certain circumstances make it impossible for me to do it that way then I will do whatever it takes to make sure my baby's debut into the world is as safe as possible. I couldn't see myself regretting something that was done for my baby's benefit. But like I said that's just my personal opinion.
Ria·
Мама сына-младенца
@gypsy.soul2, I had an unplanned c section and it was great. My OB is phenomenal. You can barely see my scar, heck it's almost non existent and recovery was amazing. I was back in the gym 3 weeks pp. I would have preferred vaginal birth but at the end my son is healthy and recovery without incidence