Sorry tmi I know but I need advice or opinions, who else would get mad at their boyfriend for watching porn?? Am I the…

You know id like to say I wouldn't but I haven't been in that situation with my boyfriend so I'm not really sure how I would feel! I think I would feel more hurt than mad

Ugh yes! I hate this. We used to have a BIG problem with this thankfully not anymore. If I am unable for some reason i could understand it then maybe but if I am able and willing why are u watchin that I never turn him down so that's unnecessary. Plus I know he wouldn't want me looking at other men so why should he do something like that. I want to be the only one he gets off to

if I'm not home I guess I don't care. but if I found him watching it while I was home instead of making love to me all hell would break Lose.

He's gotten really good at deleting and using that incognito tab... and when all of his history is deleted like your basically just saying i was doing something i wasn't supposed to!!!!!

I HATE it so much girl.... And when he lies about it and its right there IN THE HISTORY in front of his face still denies it!? HISTORY DOESNT LIE and "taking a shit" doesnt take 35 minutes either!!!

@meghanrae, glad I'm not only one.

I FEEL THE EXACT SAME WAY

@alainaharris415, that's exactly how I feel!!

My boyfriend and I went through this in the beginning of my pregnancy. He tried to lie to me about it too. Once he finally admitted it, I cried and cried and cried for days on end. I have sex with him every day at least once. I do everything he asks me to do for him. And it really upset me. I just don't see why he would need to watch it when I do all of that to him physically. It makes me feel so, so insecure and unwanted. We almost broke up over it because of how it made me feel. And it took us a very long time to move past that. I still think about it to this day and it really bothers me. A lot. Maybe even more than it should. Sometimes I still cry over it. But it is in the past. I just have a hard time realizing that and letting it go because it still hurts me so much.

Doesnt bother me, its porn, its not real. He will never see those girls in real life or anything. I honestly dont understand why it bothers some women! But thats just me

My husband doesn't watch it to my knowledge but if he did it wouldn't bother me. If I'm out of commission I'd rather that any day than him cheat. Hell I'll do it for u. I know he's turned on by me and he's attracted to me even when I don't feel so attractive. We're all different though so I can respect why it would piss you off.

@julesmama20, hopefully Mike does

exactly! that's what I told my husband said...but now he's gotten better about it somewhat lol @amberhott16

@vitachka, exactly he'd hate it

@gcpaschal, I asked him if he's still into me that way and he says yes your just never here anymore!!! Uhm!!! Sorry I get turned off when I see you watching that crap. It's not hard to send him a pic idk why he doesn't ask.

@amberhott16, some guys just don't have common sense. Like how would he feel if you were pleasuring yourself while looking at another guy?

@vitachka, exactly!!! He doesn't get it that it doesn't help me insecurities it makes it worse!

Well if it's a lot that would be a problem too. TMI but when I was single I would watch pornos in my 20's. It just helped me get to my goal. It had nothing to do with how the man looked. Again though if it's a lot and you're willing to have sex with him I'm not sure why he would watch it so much.

@mrsmord, thank you!

I had this problem with my ex porn is a big no no and when I confronted him about it he tried to turn it around on me because I wasn't pleasing him enough like excuse me I'm not your wife I don't have to even do anything with you. I was definitely pissed. If they are single then whatever go for it but not when they are in a relationship.

@julesmama20, yes I've talked to him about it and he's like "well you don't want to" or "it was when you weren't here" like uhm I can send you pics or something!!!

I don't find it respectful specially if your girl doesn't want you to watch , thank gd my husband isn't into that stuff and rather the real thing because it would bug the shit out of me . No way I find that rude - at the end of the day the men like what thy see and my self confidence is at An all time low ... So this would make it worse .

@julesmama20, what's his excuse for watching it even tho you don't like him doing it

that's how I feel about it too..have you talked to him about it? @amberhott16

It doesn't bother me a bit when he watches it anymore, it did for a few weeks when we went through a dry spell because he "just wasn't in the mood for anything sexual" but I caught him watching it and that upset me, but we got through that and now I don't care, heck, sometimes I watch it with him and it makes him happy.

Thank you @julesmama20 at least I know I'm not the only one. It definitely doesn't help my insecurities when he watches it.

it bugs me too when my husband watches it @amberhott16 I know how you feel

How could someone get off to fakeness tho??? @gcpaschal it pisses the hell outta me that he watches it so much.

Yes it bothers the hell outta me

I wouldn't care if he was watching it unless it's all the time. Does it bother you that he's jagging off to other women? Maybe it's not about the woman it's about the mission he needs to accomplish lol.