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I'm so annoyed rn. We share a house w my boyfriends sister & her small fam, she's who's never had a job or even finished…

I'm so annoyed rn. We share a house w my boyfriends sister & her small fam, she's who's never had a job or even finished a semester of school. I have a newborn, I always pick up after myself except the few times when the baby wakes up but I leave my stuff for me to clean later. I've asked her to leave it for me but by her own choice she doesn't. I've offered to take chores like the restroom and living room but she's said no bc it's her son and husbands mess too so I clean the kitchen and after my boyfriend. But this morning that she's in a bad mood she decides to complain that she does everything. Like she even has shit to do w herself w no job or school. I understand but the fact that she told me no already and when I said I'm watching the baby she said i can let her cry for a bit, pissed me off. I've been working for my shit since I was 17 and now that I have a NEW 7 WEEK OLD BABY this is all my focus. I have a problem w someone letting their life go to waste try to tell me shit when I'm always with my baby.

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jazminestar

Jazmine

Мама дочки-младенца

@amaresmama, yeah it's always hard living with other people. I deal w amor of bad mouthing about my boyfriend and it really annoys me. Like girl your man ain't shut sit down. It's hard when we're so close in age.

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Ashley

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wss^^ I am so blessed to have a roof over our heads but I do want my own place so I don't have to worry about hearing anything even though my fil is cool he doesn't usually say anything but I know in the back of his head he wants too sometimes

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Jazmine

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@amber121714, We've been looking around. It's just hard bc my ss got stolen a few years back so my credits fucked. And he's barely building his up. I thought maybe she was over reacting but no, I'm a new mom. I do what I can.

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Amber

Мама сына (1 год)

Wow that's crazy. Just let it be your motivation for you and your boyfriend to get your own place. You're a new mom with a new baby you don't need that additional stress.

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