Sometimes I don't know why I even bother with this so called "best friend" of mine. She was so…
Sometimes I don't know why I even bother with this so called "best friend" of mine. She was so excited for me to be pregnant and now she practically wants nothing to do with me. She struggles with infertility and I've always been supportive and sensitive to her issues. She never asks how things are going, never wants to hang out anymore, never comments on anything I put on facebook. Would it be selfish of me to not tell her when I'm going into labor? She hasn't even been here for me when I needed her. I just don't want to seem like a bitch or an awful friend. She moved and didn't tell me at all or the address so I sent the baby shower invite to the wrong place! Yet I see her hanging out with all other kinds of people. Maybe I'm just jealous. Idk, it's just upsetting to me and I feel like it's time for me to just move on.
Katie·
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Honestly a true friend would be there regardless if there having problems... it might bother them. but there still there regardless
Angel Harlan·
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I have a bestfriend to. And she's away at college like an hour away. we use to be so close and now that I'm pregnant we barely talk when we do its about the baby for like 5 minutes then she doesn't text back.. when I get on sc she's with her new friends partying calling them bestfriend doing sleepovers things we use to do before we both graduated and went to college... I get jealous I can honestly say that... But I know it's hurtful and an emotional toll on you.. I understand even if theres a hint of jealously I mean we all have feelings and we all want to know why someone is doing the things they do ... I totally understand... I'd say just try to communicate with her tell her how you feel... basically are we still friends or not is the question id ask just go from there and if things don't change then do what's best for you...
Angel Harlan·
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& I agree with @nathansmommy2
missing154user·
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Thank you ladies @mommy2obee @nathansmommy2
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@jacesterlingsmommy, I wouldn't take it to personal honestly. When my friend got pregnant I was distant and didn't wanna talk about it for a while. People just handle their emotions differently. I say you talk with her first. I miscarried so many times that it was just hard to talk about other people's pregnancies. I didn't mean to be so distant, but after me and my friend talk I felt so much better.
missing154user·
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She never takes the time to message or text me first. I'm ALWAYS the one who seeks her out. I'm almost kind of thinking well she doesn't really deserve to hear how it's going if she's not interested. It'd just be nice to have someone to share my experiences with besides my boyfriend or family.
missing154user·
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Right. I understand it's probably upsetting to her to a point since she's never even been able to get pregnant. I've always been there for her and when I try to ask about what's up she gets defensive. @savana_c