last month for about 3 weeks my bf was very overwhelmed with having another kid , said he didn't know what he wanted so he stayed at his moms place. I was crushed but I respected his space. now things are better than ever, we communicate alot more. we put ourselves first for once instead of our kids bc we need to not forget about us as a couple either. idk what your actual situation is but you both need to speak on your feelings

That's a lot of relationships these days, if he can't see a reason to work things out, then mentally he's already left the relationship. :(

Mines 😩😔