I had a crap sleep then on top of that I'm sick of waking up crying over my ex cause his a dirt bag but I still love him…

Big hugs just remember you're a strong independent woman and you'll get someone who treats u how you deserve everyone should be treated with respect and loved cxx Sounds like you need to invite the girls round and have a girls night in?

Thank you hun..iv been trying to concentrate on my little girl who's due soon I just can't see myself with anyone else but I guess that's cause it's still raw...lol yeah possibly x x x

It sounds like your having the same problem as I did when I was 6 months pregnant, just remember you have your baby girl coming soon and he's the one that's going to loose out as he decided to do other things, just try and keep your head high your a strong women and remember not to get too upset as it's not good for little one😊 here if you need to chat ❤️x

Thank you @batesy11 yea I was 6 months when I found out about him almost 7 xxx

If you haven't already it might be worth just mentioning it to your midwife as she got a lot of help for me xxx

Know the feeling Hun, my ex, babies dad, left me when I fell pregnant and has taken nothing to do with his son. He's already slept with someone else, before I was even 12 weeks pregnant, and is now in a relationship with someone else. It's tough, but you have your little girl to look forward to! Your due one day after me 😍 @steph775 xx

@batesy11, I have hun she just said I need to concentrate on me and the baby now as hard as it may be and it's his loss..xx @beccastirlingx same boat hun he was seeing someone else when I was 4 months gone telling me he was going out with his friends but I found out when I was almost 7 months gone he says he wants everything to do with the baby but his done nothing for her ig have done everything he don't ask about her anymore not really I just hope he becomes a better father once she's here its a shame for the kids but it takes a extremely strong women to be both mother and father l..haha yh 19th April no doubt she will make me go over make me suffer lol xxx

Exactly! If he doesn't step up I wouldn't worry about it Hun, because it shows us we don't need them! I'm like you, ive done everything myself! But I think because I was alone from the start, ive just had to get on with it but your used to having someone there so it will make it that little harder. Best thing to do is concentrate on your little one and if he doesn't come round then it's completley his loss! Not yours and especially not your little girls!! @steph775 xx

Glad the Midwife is helping, I walked in on my partner of 5 years with another girl. Times may seem hard now but they will get easier with time 😊👍x

@beccastirlingx, your right hun he was never there for me from about 2 months gone when I hit about 3 months he hac changed and everything went down hill my little girl is all that matters to me and if he don't see what his lost then that's his problem if hd don't step up an be a father to her xxx @batesy11 woow I would have lost it if I'd have walked in on them luckily I found messages n that's how I found about them both xx

Oh don't you worry they both got there fair share 😂 just couldn't go completely mental lol x

lol good the only reason I haven't flipped at my ex is because of the safety of my baby xx