Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill? He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over tonight and run it by him...
Trying to hold out and not stress because I don't want my baby being premature. I want a healthy baby.
Would you consider this cheating? What would you do I need advice from a neutral stand point. Genuine advice of what you would do. Ds had his tonsils out last night. For some reason my gut about dh was not good. At night I logged into his Snapchat and saw he was talking to an old friend who he had a thing with. Last thing I was able to see was him saying it was hard to not log into those pictures and she then said she couldn't answer the phone because she was with her husband. I texted dh and asked what pictures was it so hard for him to not look at and I guess he called her and they talked. And she supposedly came clean to me and said they would just talk and vent about what stresses them. Dh said the same thing and I guess the pictures were of them from a long time ago of them and other friends hanging out. Dh started crying saying he never meant anything that everything looked like the perfect crime but that there was nothing there. I have since kept my distance and told him to give me space. At the moment I don't want to see him. I believe what they said but I'm so hurt and I don't want to be the stupid person to believe everything.
I am so stressed right now!!! My OB doesn’t want to take me anymore because I am too “high risk” so I got a new one they don’t want to see me either. They referred me to a group one hour way from my house. But there is only one high risk dr and he doesn’t know if he could see me. I feel like I should not see any at this point.
Ladies, opinions please. With my LB my mum came to every scan and was there every step of the way. My son's dad didn't have an issue. With this baby my mum wants to be at the scan again. Obviously babies dad will be there as well. He's making a big song and dance about it. Saying it should be just us and that my little boy shouldn't even be there (it's half term he's not at school, what am I supposed to do) I said he's out of order for saying my son shouldn't be there "because he wants it to be just us" my opinion is that it's his little brother or sister and I don't want him to feel left out. I want him to get excited and be involved.....I've said he hasn't got a choice. I'm not palming my son off on a child minder. And he said clearly he has no say in the matter blah blah blah and he said and I quote "Maybe I won't go then" I said cool....your loss. Am I being unfair?
Rasha·
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Look honey regardless if they're going to be mad or not if he wanna be there let him there if anyone doesn't like it they can stay in the waiting room. Labor is intense and you don't want a bunch of unhappy people lingering around because he wanna be there for his daughters birth. Deny him now and he may be resentful after she's Here
Michelle Valdez·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
and its so sad to me to see you say you're worried about making other ppl mad, this is childbirth!! screw everything else for real!
Michelle Valdez·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
When it comes down to it you are the one who decides who'll be there. and he is the father so regardless of how your family feels that's kind of immature to try to keep him from being there for the birth of his child!
Maggie·
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I mean I understand that... but when it comes to the child of the TWO of you, umm my mom would be the one to go! he shouldn't have to be uncomfortable for the birth of HIS child. like I said they need to put their differences aside for this ONE day for YOU! and then everyone could be happy😊😊
Becca VC·
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Anytime, I hope things work out for you. :)
Haylee·
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I mean it is his baby too, they just need to put there issues to the side and be there for you, but if he wants to be there then I'd let him be
Marisa·
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@gingyrex thank you for your advice& you're right I'll have to be stronger.
Becca VC·
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Just breathe, mama. Your happiness and your baby's happiness are what is most important. Anyone upset by that will eventually get over it. Make a choice and stick by it. Less stress that way. :)
Marisa·
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I agree fully but they are both strong minded.. and I just feel like I'll either pick one or kick one out from arguing.. I feel like I'll probably cry if that happens.. I wish that theyd look at it that way... @raemeg
Maggie·
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umm, it's his baby so he should be granted to be in the delivery room with you on y'all special day. him and your mom will just have to co exist for YOU!
Marisa·
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Oh the hospital I go to say how many we want.. and both my ma and him know(cuz when we were in speaking terms all the time) and so it's like ugh I don't want to make anyone mad at me.. and I wouldn't mind the whole visiting thing it just because of how he sounded he wanted to be in the labor and delivery room right next to me(which I wanted more so before all types of shit happened between us) but now it's like.. I just hope you don't stress me out. ugh I'm stressing now.. and it's not even happening right now. 😞😞 @gingyrex
Becca VC·
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Most hospitals only allow two people in delivery with you, so choose who will comfort you in labor. Then when having people visit just make time for both separately. The nurses are there to be the bad guys and kick people out if need be. You got this mama!
Marisa·
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Ugh I hate that.. cuz I feel the same when my ma is talking. you're lucky. and I totally agree.. it's about the baby and not the issues everyone has.. but sometimes it's like are you fs they're mature enough to do it.. I have a feeling I'll have to pick out one or a few people.. and I'm not excited at all.. @dylansmommy123
dylansmommy123·
i gave birth to our daughter alone so she feels he doesn't deserve to be there
dylansmommy123·
my mom likes to say its him or me. when its not about either of them @marisa95lynn
dylansmommy123·
im sorry. That's the same mess im dealing with. thank god i live in Tennessee and my family is in new jersey. Everyone needs to put their issues to the side and support you