maybe it will make it easier? I honestly can't imagine having my husband in the military and deployed! so scary to me :(

@nebanks1226, My husband attempted to join the marines but they turned him down for the tattoos on his forearms. There loss because my husband has passion for what he does in the army.

yeah I've been an army wife for about two years and I hate the army my husband is artillery 13B. his unit is very understand about pregnancy and family so we.got lucky on that one. I couldn't handle the navy I hear they are so strict and crazy..I still tell my husband to this day he should have joined the airforce lmao..they get treated so much better @ginabee93 @twinmama_navywife

@twinmama_navywife, So many things bother me about the military, and the whole pregnancy issue is my number one problem.

@ginabee93, yeah well even informing them I'm a high risk pregnancy won't make them doing anything 😤

@twinmama_navywife, I don't blame you. You being pregnant is a very valid reason for him to be there!

@ginabee93, he does what he can to be be there, but I swear if they give him a hard time once labor comes... I'm going to have a thing or two to say after!

@twinmama_navywife, I would be so pissed off! I thought living with my husband would better things with my pregnancy but he hasn't been able to make it to one appointment of mine. At times I get fed up and wanna move back home.

@ginabee93, @nebanks1226 we are basically sitting on our hands waiting to leave Illinois. But my hubby can't even live with me. I'm stuck living at home with my parents while he's on base and we wait to leave which won't be till the end of this year or early next year! Total BS! Plus he's been restricted so even if I went into labor like i.e. tonight I would basically have NO luck of getting him off base to the hospital.. Sh**s messed up...

@nebanks1226, Army, 11Bravo. Infantry as they call it. Before we got here in Louisiana they shipped out the cycle of troops to Afghanistan, two months ago. And my husbands platoon/brigade is up next.

@twinmama_navywife, I definitely do not look forward to it. Mainly because everything is a play it by ear type of situation.

@ginabee93, what branch is your hubby in? and yeah once my husband comes back from deployment he's getting put on this 24 month long thing where he's constantly in and out of the field for months. month oflr so in 2 weeks out and back in for a month

@ginabee93, yeah my husband's deployments will run anywhere between 6 to 9 to 12 months at a time... Or sometimes longer.. Just depends on what happens.. All because of his job too.. Really sucks.

@nebanks1226, @twinmama_navywife My husband has been out in the field on a mission for two days, comes home tomorrow, thank goodness. And his SGT said if he's deployed when I go into labor he gets a 10 day leave to come and be with me, but you can't count on it. I would gladly take 6 months over the 9 my husband would be gone. Either way having them not with us sucks. My husbands FDS is here in Louisiana, which is a 3 year term, and who knows what's gonna happen from now till then. Hectic, but we have each other! ❤️

@nebanks1226, all of my hubby's deployments will be around 6 to 9 to 12 months.. More likely on the higher side because of his job...

OMG girl that's insane! the longest my.hubby can deploy is 6 months so I can't even imagine. if you ever wanna talk message me girl! I know being a military wife is hard we gotta stick together lol!

@ginabee93, @nebanks1226 My husband can't even live with me right now... It really sucks feeling alone.. I'm sure you both understand. We are waiting on orders right now.. He had to pass up a Japan three year deployment because 1 he's married and 2 it's his first round of orders. I have to say THANK GOD he couldn't take them because it's three years, and I wouldn't be able to go with.. So we would be going three years without him.. Good thing the Navy has "SOME" family morals..

my husband is deploying next month..hoping they send him home for the birth! they say they are gonna but you know how the military is

Omg I know! My little girl is due in May. And there's talk about my husband being deployed beginning of next year!

Props to you, I couldn't do it. 😐