Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
abusive father If a man is abusive to the mother of his child does that mean he will be abusive to the children? Can he be a good father and an abusive spouse?
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
Keisha B·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (34 нед.)
@mommyx2g, wow. He wasted no time. I know that's exactly how my now ex is. He's probably going out and partying up and sleeping with a bunch of chicks like he was doing before we met while I am at home taking care of our kids and growing to be a good role model and mother to them. Like wth is wrong with men. When they have a good girl they ruin it.
Mary·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (34 нед.)
I'm telling you! I rode past my exes tonight just to find another girls car there, he said im crazy for thinking someone else is with him. No Hun you wish I was crazy so you could run your game. That was my last straw
Keisha B·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (34 нед.)
@mommyx2g, all of these men sound crazy lol they need counseling and a lot of Jesus 😂 I love my babies and they will always come first. He even tried to get me to choose him over our kids. That was the last straw for me.
Mary·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (34 нед.)
Do what's best for your children. I kept my first away from her father he was mentally and emotionally abusive and is now in jail smh. I'm currently 35 weeks pregnant and going through a tough time with what is now my ex smh I don't get these men I really don't.
Keisha B·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (34 нед.)
@eswitzer31,
Keisha B·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (34 нед.)
Oh wow! Im sorry you are going through the same thing. I swear they don't make men like they used to. My dad is such a good man and it just confuses me how men in this age can suck so much.
Erin·
Мама сына (1 год)
I'm pretty much going through the same thing, I'm slowly pushing my sons father out because he is toxic and not a good father figure for him. My ex was also mentally and verbally abusive, along with control in and manipulative and I don't want that happening to my son. You are doing what is best for your children!