I know this is not pregnancy related but wanted to share it..

I used to work with a women that was so self obsessed. she had a daughter and her partner left her moved to America. than she met another man and had a boy. she has always been jealous of her daughter and blames her that the previous partner has left. (the girls spends summer in America etc) it had gone that far that she has kicked her out now (she is 17) as she wants the 3 bedroom council house for her, her son and partner.

while I was working with her the girl would pop in after school and I would chat with her and show her kindness (even gave her money before). she just messaged me on facebook asking if she is allowed to visit me when the baby is born. and that she will bring a present. sitting here with tears in my eyes and told her that's not needed and she is always welcome. the girl had about 10 years of neglect and abuse and she is still such a sweet girl. some people really don't disurve to call their self mum!!