Believe me I didn't want it either. I still don't. I wish he would come back home but I just told myself not to rush it. He'll come back when he's ready so as a piece of mind I'll know he came back because he wanted to be here.

@mommy_of_02,

Thank u Hun I appreciate it, I've prayed and maybe we do need time apart.. I don't necessarily want it but it may be best

If y'all both want to forgive and forget then it'll work. Not everyone believes in prayer but I'll say one for you because everyone deserves their family. I hope this helped to make you feel better

Y'all might just need time apart. Me and my SO we're having problems they weren't on the level of yours but it got pretty rough. He moved out we stopped talking for a while but we slowly came back together. I would say pray about everything and if you don't want to give up yet then don't. Don't rush into just start off slow. Forget that y'all are having a baby and start over like y'all just met. Go on dates and just take yalls time. It'll rekindle and y'all will fall back into place. Right now we have been doing so good that it scares me.

We've gone way past arguing, if u go back in my feed you'll see what I mean (too much to retype) but as of now we're both still mad/hurt so I feel like we're letting everything we built crumble @mommyoftwo1

Have you tried to sit down with him and just have conversation without arguing ?