Hell naw girl I would have being stabbing that woman I would have been in jail for murder that's some fucked up shit to say but my sisters sister in law was in labor with her baby for 24 hours before they did a c-section because she was to weak and in pain from her loss she couldn't push but her mom kept the doctors from doing anything she told the doctors they weren't doing a c-section that she needs to be a woman and push that baby out and finally the doctors told the mom she has to get one because the baby could kill her for being in to long and the mom got mad and left the hospital for like an hour or so let me remind you this girl was only 15 at the time of her labor so she had no say so her mom was in charge and I was so amd and hurt when my sister told me what happened I told my sister if that was mom and she did that to me i swear I would of kicked her out and never speak to her again I mean that's horrible to be in labor for 24 hours giving birth to your still born @dylansmommy123

wow! how heartless some people can be! 😠 @dylansmommy123

@mommyof5kayla, its all hurtful. i had this stupid ass woman tell me. "im sorry honey they wouldn't have gave me a c section for a baby i wasn't taking home" like really. Long story short when friends got my hands from around her neck she will think b4 she speak

I know I had 3 miscarriages before emy baby boy now and knowing how much that hurt to be only 6 to 8 weeks and losing a baby I can't won't image losing my baby at 36 to 40 weeks or anytime in between that it hurts it takes apart of you noone can give back so I would be more then happy to sit my little happy ass down for as long as I need to to make sure my fat boy is healthy and perfect @hayleybug

Thats so sad 😥 i cant imagine going through that. ive been through a miscarriage but i cant imagine carrying a baby for so long and then giving birth and not be able to take him/her home 💔 @mommyof5kayla

well I think it will be worth it my sisters sister in law was 36 or 37 weeks and she had her baby still born she had an appointment and the day before she called to tell them something was wrong and they canceled her appointment and pushed it a week back so she just went to the hospital and found out she lost her baby so those every week or every 2 weeks is worth it because you never know anything can go wrong from one day to another

i dont have a doppler so i look forward to hearing her heartbeat lol and dang you have to wait that long? they always have me in and out really fast @delilahmarie

@delilahmarie, ive been going every 2 weeks to my OB and my high risk since the beginning and started going to my OB every week since 21 weeks. it sucks but for the best

I mean to me it's not worth it because I know she's moving around, I really just hate sitting in there for 60 mins wasting time they always take so long and I'm not being dramatic I swear 😭😩

I figured thats all they would. Thats all they do now lol i drive 30 miles for that 😕 but its worth it @delilahmarie

Not shit... Wait till you go every week... They still don't do shit waste of my fucking time all they do is use the Doppler

im sorry to hear that! that has to be the hardest thing to go through! @dylansmommy123

@hayleybug, my daughter only lived 10 days

Oh my gosh thats scary! @raethack

Wow thats really early! im so scared of going into early labor! my sister was born at 24 weeks and my older brother was born at 25 weeks but he didnt make it @dylansmommy123

I have been high risk preeclampsia since 19 weeks. Basically, its when your blood pressure gets insanely out of control. They'll also find a high count of protein in your urine. It could lead to other things as in your body slowly shutting down (your organs) and cause you to have seizures.. Most mommas will have to deliver immediately if they're over 36 weeks. Luckily I beat the odds! That's why they check your blood pressure every single visit and if it was a concern they'd let you know. A lot of the times it usually sets in late term but some it comes super early and they have to deliver preemie babies. :/ its so sad!

i had preeclampsia with my first pregnancy. had to deliver at 28 weeks. it high blood pressure @hayleybug

whats preeclampsia? ive seen moms talk about it but i never know what it is @raethack

Mostly keeping an eye out for those last minute things that can go wrong. Preeclampsia is one of them since it can come on so fast and sudden. They'll eventually start checking your cervix to see if you're dilated any, too!