guys I'm struggling. baby's dad wants to see her which is fine. but I still have strong feelings for him and trying to move on but I'm afraid to have him see her and make it harder on me. I don't dare leave her alone with him since she's 12 days old tomorrow.
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I stalked your profile lol. You're not a teen mom okay? You're a mom. A mom loves her child. A mom deserves happiness not waiting around for the baby daddy to come around. A mom is strong and can get through the day. A mom is okay that she is single because now she can learn to love herself! She can be free to be herself! And then someday a guy will love how happy she is and want to be around that.
I encourage you to fine happiness. Not in a guy, but within yourself. You. If you put happiness in a guy(they get so overwhelmed) then they control you. Focus on your little one and enjoy the ride! They grow so fast! :) sorry for the long post lol!
It's all a mind game! It is hard, but tell yourself you're moving on. Literally, the more you tell yourself, the more you believe it. Ask yourself what went wrong, why you're not together, and why you're okay with it. You got this! Remember, things always get better. This is just a chapter that ended and you have full control of your own happiness! Don't let him take away your happiness!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
thanks so much it helped a lot! and definitely will enjoy the ride and focus on us :) @mommastone