guys I'm struggling. baby's dad wants to see her which is fine. but I still have strong feelings for him and trying to move on but I'm afraid to have him see her and make it harder on me. I don't dare leave her alone with him since she's 12 days old tomorrow.
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I stalked your profile lol. You're not a teen mom okay? You're a mom. A mom loves her child. A mom deserves happiness not waiting around for the baby daddy to come around. A mom is strong and can get through the day. A mom is okay that she is single because now she can learn to love herself! She can be free to be herself! And then someday a guy will love how happy she is and want to be around that.
I encourage you to fine happiness. Not in a guy, but within yourself. You. If you put happiness in a guy(they get so overwhelmed) then they control you. Focus on your little one and enjoy the ride! They grow so fast! :) sorry for the long post lol!
thanks so much that helped me alot! @mommastone
It's all a mind game! It is hard, but tell yourself you're moving on. Literally, the more you tell yourself, the more you believe it. Ask yourself what went wrong, why you're not together, and why you're okay with it. You got this! Remember, things always get better. This is just a chapter that ended and you have full control of your own happiness! Don't let him take away your happiness!
thanks so much it helped a lot! and definitely will enjoy the ride and focus on us :) @mommastone