when there's certain people in your immediate family (in laws and blood) that you can't stand bcuz of decisions they make (drug addictions and just overall mental health) and then look at your babies and could literally cry bcuz they have the same blood flowing through their veins. example: my MIL is an alcoholic and I have finally put my foot down and have removed her from my childrens life for good (unless she really changes her life for long enough to make me believe it) and I'm at the point I can't stand her but I want to cry when I look at my children bcuz her blood is in their veins and it drives me insane and theres nothing I can do about it... like there's part of her in my kids and it just hit me hard and I cannot get it out of my head and I'm so annoyed by it right now #PregnancyHormonesAreStrongTonight
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I was just having this conversation with my mom the other night. My dad is a drug addict and alcoholic and I was telling her that I am scared my daughter is going to struggle with addiction when she gets older because it skips generations. she told me as long as you always have honest conversations with her about it and try your best to help hey overcome whatever struggles she may face and love her unconditionally that's all you can do. It definitely helped a little bit. I know every situation is different but I definitely know how you are feeling
Ok so there's this girl that won't leave my man alone... She's a crazy ex and I want to know what I should do.... It's like she does thing purposely to taunt me and I can't beat her ass bcuz I'm pregnant... No matter what he does our says to her she won't stop.... This is her...I swear y'all it's taking everything in me not to get her beat tf up!!?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Sooo my baby is almost a year and a half and I STILL can't stand to hear her cry is that just me?
the hospital told me if I soak a pad its not normal..well today I stood up and felt blood I look in the pad and there's a lot...I clean up and stand up again and there's a pile of blood on the floor & I feel so nauseous.. I'm so scared & my doctor is on lunch break! I have 30 more minutes ):
I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!
I know it's hard because you want them to be okay and not struggle. All you can do is be there and try your best to guide them down the right path.