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Khadijah Gray
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I don't know if it's just me or not , but by me being a FTM & being that im so young I literally sent myself into an…

I don't know if it's just me or not , but by me being a FTM & being that im so young I literally sent myself into an anxiety attack omw to have my emergency c section done. I went to the hospital with contractions 8 mins apart even though my doctor requested me to stay home another hour. When I got to the hospital they told me that my water had broken and I didn't even know it , about 1 1/2 hours later I was fully dilated and was told to prepare myself to push. Not even 1 minute later my baby girls heart rate dropped from 117 to 59 & I was told i had to get an emergency c section. I didn't have time to be drugged bc her heart was crashing & I felt them cut into me and push her out. When I came to I instantly broke down bc if I would have waited any longer like my doctor requested, my daughter would have been dead. Idk if it was motherly instincts or just pure luck but I'm so thankful I listened to my gut feelings & not my doctor. #sorryINeededToVent

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angiek

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Thank God your baby is ok! I definitely think it was motherly instinct...what a thing to through. Praying for a speedy recovery for you & health of your baby!@kattyjay

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bbbbb888

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yikes you felt a c section . I'm glad you and baby are okay

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kattyjay

Khadijah Gray

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Thank you @carlitojrmami @angiek , and what made it worse my doctor wasn't even there to deliver the baby after being called 3 times . It's really a shame how much doctors neglect their patients these days

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angiek

Angie

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@kattyjay I agree. I'm lucky to be delivering at Duke. They have a team of several doctors & meet with all of them. You are guaranteed it will be one of them.

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To the momma's that have had Cesarean's before, planned or emergency, my doctor told me that I have no choice in this…

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I have never been insulted this much by a doctor. I switched because I want to attempt a vbac and my midwife couldn't do…

I have never been insulted this much by a doctor. I switched because I want to attempt a vbac and my midwife couldn't do it. He told me since I had a c-section it would lower my chances to almost impossible for my vbac. He also told me if I gain more than 20lbs this pregnancy they won't even deliver me at the hospital in town and I would be turned down even if I went into emergency. I felt like crying I bawled my eyes out in the car. My old ob back it Chicago would've never said that to me! She always respected what I wanted. He told me I might as well schedule my c-section because it won't work.