Not a Rant but long:
Maybe it's just me but I have a great relationship with my little girls dad and we aren't together. He has a girlfriend and her and I have talked and she is really sweet and I'm 100% okay with her being around my daughter and coming over to visit every now again with my child's dad. I don't want him so I have nothing against her. I think he's going to be a great dad. He calls and checks on us all the time and always ask if I need anything. If everybody in the situation can be adults and you don't still want your child's dad there's no reason it can't be drama free. Just something to think about.
Wish my girls dad was like that but ever since he got with his fiance he's changed they had a son together and he dosent ask about my girls anymore he ignores my messages me and his fiance don't get along because she took my youngest out of my hands and was kissing on her and was calling her baby which is not okay with me and every time he came to see his girls he wasn't allowed to come around unless he brought someone with him and the whole time that he would be spending time with them he would be talking to her and she would try and talk him into taking them from me and all that I wish I had it easy like you do my daughter's don't even know their real dad they call my husband daddy.
I'm sorry she's acting like that. I feel like she's never done anything to me and he and I aren't together so he has every right to move on. As long as you aren't a danger to her child she has no reason to act that way besides being jealous and or still wanting him. I want my daughter to be happy and feel like we are all family and we all love each other. She's not hurting anybody but her child by acting that way.
I wish this was possible for my situation my Bd gf or whatever she wants to be is childish and constantly running in and out of his life and they both act like they still in high school and she barely take care of her own kid everytime u look she out And she disrespectful n can manipulate him to say and do anything which I feel like she was stop him from seeing our baby it's just way to much