Not a Rant but long:
Maybe it's just me but I have a great relationship with my little girls dad and we aren't together. He has a girlfriend and her and I have talked and she is really sweet and I'm 100% okay with her being around my daughter and coming over to visit every now again with my child's dad. I don't want him so I have nothing against her. I think he's going to be a great dad. He calls and checks on us all the time and always ask if I need anything. If everybody in the situation can be adults and you don't still want your child's dad there's no reason it can't be drama free. Just something to think about.