I'm so frustrated...so I've been having this lightning crotch pain for about 2 weeks I'm extremely sore and in pain. I'm…

I'm so frustrated...so I've been having this lightning crotch pain for about 2 weeks I'm extremely sore and in pain. I'm so exhausted and drained from the pain. had my doctors appointment today and nothing I'm not dilated at all. I keep telling him that with my son I never went into labor I never even experienced the pain I'm feeling now. they're letting me try for a vbac but my concern is that I won't start dialiting and he didn't schedule my csection until after my due date. it's nerve racking that something might happen to the baby just because my body dosent want to go into labor 😧😩😔