I'm so frustrated...so I've been having this lightning crotch pain for about 2 weeks I'm extremely sore and in pain. I'm so exhausted and drained from the pain. had my doctors appointment today and nothing I'm not dilated at all. I keep telling him that with my son I never went into labor I never even experienced the pain I'm feeling now. they're letting me try for a vbac but my concern is that I won't start dialiting and he didn't schedule my csection until after my due date. it's nerve rackin...