Feeling a bit off right now. Went to OB today and I'm at a good 3cm dilated 60+ effaced and she said she is willing to induce me this Thursday or we can wait it out until she comes. I'm due the 21st so would be 3 days before my due date. I decided to do it cause I'm stressed out to the max. My SO can't handle anything right now he is a mess and very upset all the time and thinks do it, cause he can't handle anything unexpected. My kids come Friday and my mother & sister live 6 hours away and say do it so they can schedule to be here. I feel bad like I'm evicting her but everyone says she is healthy and full term. I'm probably just anxious about it never been induced before & probably good to get her out before my body has some crazy reaction or hurts her from my stress. All I can think is the sooner she is here the sooner I can get back to work and get on with things in life cause since August I've been in a rut laid off and living stressed about if my bills are going to get paid or when my car will be repossessed. This has been the longest most stressful pregnancy right in the middle of the longest and hardest year of my life. If I survive giving birth I think I'll start to believe I am strong and can do this no matter what but I'm an anxious person so that's a big IF in my book.
what am I doing and am I doing it right😟😔
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I would go ahead with being induced. you seen super worked up and that doesn't the baby any good. I was induced with my first and had an amazing delivery. I would rather be induced so I have it all planned out rather then it to happen and me not be ready.
So I keep feeling these lil sharp pains on my right side. You do get pains like that before you start your period right.? Remember I had that dark brown spotting for a few hours last month on the 22. My period suppose to start today.
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Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
is it wrong to be frustrated that my daughter acts like she can't do certain things with out my help. she plays dumb a lot and I wish I could be like no girl show what you know. she acts like she can't trace or match shapes so shes ask for "mommy finger" to help her so I barely hold her hand and she magically can do it but if I dont hold her hand she just scribbles and acts like she doesnt know
the pic is how she traces when I'm "helping her" otherwise it'll just be scribbles all over the page
Has anyone ever had to be induced an had to get there water broken by their doctor, if so can you tell me how does it feel, do it hurt, can you feel it, do they give you an epidural before they do it an also do they give you an epidural before your pitocin or can you ask for it before then?? Really need answers bc I'm so lost this my first time ever getting induced after 2 kids an first time hearing if they might have to break my water I'm not ready for that if it leads to pain. But they not sur...
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What is your opinion on the Philando Castile shooting? I just saw a recording of his 4 year old telling the mom not to scream so she doesn't get shot. That video broke my heart. I haven't read into the whole thing but do you think the cop was in the right?
I would go ahead with being induced. you seen super worked up and that doesn't the baby any good. I was induced with my first and had an amazing delivery. I would rather be induced so I have it all planned out rather then it to happen and me not be ready.