Feeling fed up! First baby and me and oh decided not to find out the sex, absolutely fed up of…

We had the same when I was pregnant with william hun. Everyone in OH's family were saying 'it has to be a girl' and went on about it all the time. Clearly they were wrong, I just wish I could have seen their faces when they got the phone call 😊 xx

I was in your shoes hun :) I know how it feels xx I was team yellow too! Everyone kept telling me I was having a boy...I got told so much..it actually convinced me that I was! My mum bought the typical genderised boy things and so did my family. I was all for unisex and and white clothes. I was more concerned about a healthy baby :) Well out popped a girl 😂 Safe to say my family were so shocked..including me lol. XxX

Oh feel better now someone else been in my shoes @winterbaby95 @zaralee71 my close family have been supportive just oh were like 'find out, please you can have hand me downs or we can buy blue/pink' or the classic 'dunno how you do it' and I think it's easy, better surprise. haha you will know what I mean but it's hard isn't it as they convinced me I'm having a boy but the only set name (ish) we have is for a girl. We will see in 3 weeks ☺️ I would love to shock them with a girl haha, but I just want to meet my baby healthy no matter what the sex. There's been 3 people I know who have said girl!!!! Xx

It absolutely did my head in! and made me feel like they wouldn't care about the baby if it was a boy. Not long until you find out! Both my first two were surprises and I loved that but I fancied finding out this time haha xx

quite frankly I don't know how you managed to contain you'd self not knowing lol just ignore them hun you enjoy the last of your pregnancy xx

Were they @zaralee71 don't you have all boys too?! And me too haha. Really @steph775 easy tbh as we had it in our heads since beginning however I am very very curious don't get me wrong haha!! Thankyou and nope not long now at all hopefully xx

My eldest has a different biological dad. And yep, OH's mum was really upset that William wasn't a girl 😕 I can't stand the woman! xx

Oh right I get you, that's stupid you think she would be happy😂😡 can't stand people like that!!! Was she disappointed this baby your having is a boy?? Xx

My nan still says I'm having a boy even though I've had two gender scans that show she is a girl. People for ya 😂 x

Hahaa oh no!! Think that is worse hahaha @lou x😂😂😂

Ye you would have thought she would be, he is her first grandchild. I have no idea if she is happy about this one being a boy, Lee text her to tell her and she text back asking if he was happy about that?! Stupid woman! He replied with 'ofcourse I'm happy! I'm having a baby!' and we haven't heard off her since. I tend to stay clear of them lot, they cause too much drama xx

People keep telling me what I'm having, I say 'he' but I have explained I don't have a clue, just don't like using 'it'. I am looking forward to an amazing surprise, on my birth plan, I want hubs to tell me, they when he calls the rellies, he can tell them! xXx

@lou, lol!

@mummywarwick, I don't like saying it either, it's hard though isn't it and yeah I know what you mean that's a good idea!! Haha suppose it comes with not finding out, families eh😂🙈 xxx