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so update: On March 11th I went through 15 hours of extremely intense active labor and on and off hours of pushing…

so update: On March 11th I went through 15 hours of extremely intense active labor and on and off hours of pushing before anyone listened to me about my son being too large for my body. After about 4 hours of being fully dilated his head was still -1 and wasn't coming down any more. At that point I started mentioning him most likely being too large for my body and needing a c section. no one would listen to me so after 10 more hours 2 spinal injections and a bloaced epidural (all of which faded out before 1 hour of having them), vaginal swelling from failed pushing, vomiting 7 times (8total after surgery) they tried to push pitocin on me and I refused and said I needed a x section and finally about 45 minutes later I was being prepend for one. when they delivered my son the first words out of their mouth were oh my god he is a big boy ( my so and I are both small and I didn't have gd) so I responded with I told you! his birth weight was 9 lbs. 13.7 Oz and he was 20 in. long. so after I got to see him they took him and my so to the nursery and they started giving me drug after drug to stop my bleeding. I lost 1000 ccs of blood which is borderline hemoraging. I have been recovering somewhat well and I've been home since yesterday. Killian is doing great he has lost some weight but is breastfeeding amazingly! And I am so happy he is finally here despite the struggle it took to get him.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he…

Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill? He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over tonight and run it by him...

Right after I delivered! Pushed for an hour exactly! Started pushing at 8:02pm and he was born at 9:02pm! My husband was…

Right after I delivered! Pushed for an hour exactly! Started pushing at 8:02pm and he was born at 9:02pm! My husband was an amazing coach and helped me so much through all the tough times I don't think I could have done it without him! I love him so much he's the best!! More pics and birth story to come! Thank you so much everyone for all their love and support its really meant a lot to me. So ecstatic to be a mommy!! 😁💙👶🏼

Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄

Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!