Just feel like venting a bit maybe I'll feel better so today I found out I'm expecting a little boy to my surprise I expected that ultrasound to say girl because my doctor told me based on the gender blood test I took I stated it was a girl. But what happened was he misinterpreted it he read the gender for my blood test not the babies so for a good month I thought I was having a girl. Overall I'm surprised but actually very excited I have a 6 year old boy and 19 month girl already. So I have my pair. The problem though is we announced it to our mother in law today and she smiled about but I could see she felt a little bummed out. She's not really talking about it. Just that she's going to get all the girl outfits she bought and gift them to her friend who's expecting a girl. She was really set on a girl but I guess I just wish she would be more happy since she already has a girl granddaughter that she can spoil with cute girl outfits. But now my daughter never likes to go with her she cries every time she sees her. Reason for that is she doesn't spend enough quality time with her but my 6 year old does. I'm guessing he's easier to take care of and he enjoys being with her plus my son grew up living with her up until 3 years old and then we moved away and my daughter didn't grow up in her house until we just recently moved back in with her. Another thing is my mother in law has 3 boys of her own. Her second son (which is my husband ) when she was pregnant with him she was told he was girl it wasn't till she gave birth she found out he was a boy. Then with her third she wanted a girl so bad but got another boy. I can see how hard it must have been to have your mind set on a girl and then find out it's a boy. It's like she's going through gender disappointment all over again but I feel like she shouldn't she's already blessed with a grand daughter. The way I see it I'm just thankful he's a healthy baby so far. I guess maybe it's hard for me to understand should I be more understanding or should I be disappointed that she's not happy about the new baby. Idk I'm hoping she will get excited again.