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Aliyah
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Lately I've been thinking about my work life after I have my baby, I can't help but to think I don't wanna go back to my…

Lately I've been thinking about my work life after I have my baby, I can't help but to think I don't wanna go back to my current job because the hours are super long and the shifts are always being changed last min ,

Idk if it's normal for me to feel nervous about being away from my child for 8-9 hours a day from sun up til sun down already when he's not even here yet but I just can't help but feel like that's too long for me to be away from him with him in someone else's care, like not everyone is gonna take care of your baby/child like you will.

Not to say any of his family members would purposely harm him tho....

Guess I'm just gonna have to keep reminding myself even though I make real good easy quick money now no amount of money is worth loosing out on time with your child or missing moments in your child's life....

#justathought #rant

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poohzbaby328

Faith JohnsonМама сына (8 лет), беременна (13 нед.)

I feel the same way because I work nights with my husband and I get 3 months off with fmla

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armanimommy0524

Aliyah

*first year

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armanimommy0524

Aliyah

Yeah I know to the best thing but I don't wanna think about myself , i want my child to know me and I don't wanna miss out on any moments or any first. It's gonna be hard to move on from my job but I think it's best if I do so I can be involved in my child's life while he's growing. Especially in that first month

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lashellg

dylishaМама двоих (1 год, 9 лет), ждёт третьего

I was the same way before I had my son. You have to do whats best for you. And when the opportunity for change comes go for it!

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