So hubby accidentally smashed my fingers in a door and they instantly swelled and started bruising,…

So hubby accidentally smashed my fingers in a door and they instantly swelled and started bruising, they hurt so bad I started to cry and he just told me to quit being a baby about it. ... like, it hurts like hell and I'm pretty sure 4 of my fingers are broken. obviously it's going to make me tear up a little bit, and yet he wonders why I don't come to him or talk to him for anything that upsets me even the slightest bit. I may be acting like a baby but it's better than being an asshole like he's being now. oy...