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WARNING: A LITTLE LONG BUT PLEASE HELP

WARNING: A LITTLE LONG BUT PLEASE HELP

My boyfriend has his friends here ALL THE TIME! They always stay the night and he stays out there with him until like 2 or 3 in the morning, sometimes later. Like seriously if I don't say anything I will only get like one day out of the week with him too myself. It almost feels like they stay here: bills go up, food and drinks are gone faster, I can't go sit on the couch in our living room, etc. In the morning there out there sleeping on our couches and dont leave when my boyfriend goes to work!

On top of all that my boyfriend nor either one of his friends have a car right now so I'm also the taxi cab! I don't mind taking my boyfriend where he needs to go because ik what I was getting into when I started dating him. But as for his friends I'm tired of taking them everywhere: to work, from work, to and from their house (which is about 7 miles from my house), to the store, etc. Im about this close 👌🏽 to exploding

I've talked to him about it plenty of times and I've had little attitudes because he doesn't listen. When I start complaining he'll give me like 2 or 3 days then it starts over.

Yes we're very young (I'm 22, he's 21) but I still feel like there should be a line drawn with the "kicking it". Im more family oriented at a young age and want to have more alone time. Im more reserved and have always been that way. He likes being around friends but at the same time when he wanted too move in with me he should've realized he'd have to make a few compromises, right? Or am I over exaggerating? Please tell me what you'd do in my situation .

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transformermom

Dawn Weiss Craig GreenМама троих детей

I would kick them out. You don't need that behavior and stresd

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tt194210

TianaВ ожидании первенца

honestly I would put them out or make them pay some bills since they are always there ...our tell them they have to find their own choufer and be gone by a reasonable time

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mommyofcohenjayceandmatthew

Courtney WarnerМама двоих (4 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

Girl you good cause the taxi would be their get around car not you and they should have some respect for you as well. Put your foot down and keep them out your house! And make sure your boyfriend knows its not being ugly its being realistic to the fact that he spends more time with them than you cause its his company not yall company!

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mrgmommy2016

KayleeМама подростков, ждёт третьего

start making them pay for gas or bring there own food start making them do their share if they are going to be there treat them like roommates... it may make it seem like your the "bad person" but its your house

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meganeileen6

MeganМама дочки-младенца

👆👆👆

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patgom47

Patricia Arviso-GomezМама сына-младенца

@mommytimestwo, refuse to give his friends rides

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