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Jasmine
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Мама сына (1 год)

WARNING: A LITTLE LONG BUT PLEASE HELP

WARNING: A LITTLE LONG BUT PLEASE HELP

My boyfriend has his friends here ALL THE TIME! They always stay the night and he stays out there with him until like 2 or 3 in the morning, sometimes later. Like seriously if I don't say anything I will only get like one day out of the week with him too myself. It almost feels like they stay here: bills go up, food and drinks are gone faster, I can't go sit on the couch in our living room, etc. In the morning there out there sleeping on our couches and dont leave when my boyfriend goes to work!

On top of all that my boyfriend nor either one of his friends have a car right now so I'm also the taxi cab! I don't mind taking my boyfriend where he needs to go because ik what I was getting into when I started dating him. But as for his friends I'm tired of taking them everywhere: to work, from work, to and from their house (which is about 7 miles from my house), to the store, etc. Im about this close 👌🏽 to exploding

I've talked to him about it plenty of times and I've had little attitudes because he doesn't listen. When I start complaining he'll give me like 2 or 3 days then it starts over.

Yes we're very young (I'm 22, he's 21) but I still feel like there should be a line drawn with the "kicking it". Im more family oriented at a young age and want to have more alone time. Im more reserved and have always been that way. He likes being around friends but at the same time when he wanted too move in with me he should've realized he'd have to make a few compromises, right? Or am I over exaggerating? Please tell me what you'd do in my situation .

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texasrose

texasМама подростков

smh my bf and i are both 24 i put a hault to this shit real fast. occasionally they can chill like that but the moment. im tired your ass has one hour to come to bed with me. i work i support us i pay the bills. they aint shit to me and if you wanna play petty shit you can step the fuck out with them. and all his friends know i dont fuck around. oh you wanna come with us thats cool wheres your money. Hunny if you have the bs now itll just carry on until he realizes you mean business or til you see it isnt what you want.

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housfullofgrls

JessieМама двоих (4 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

My ex husband did that to me for years. That's why he's me ex. Some men never grow up and realize that family comes first

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kminarae

MaylonМама сына (3 года), беременна (13 нед.)

I left because of that very reason. He didn't have all his friends but he let one come stay with us for a month. In that month his friend got arrested and lost his job. Let's just say the friend is still there while our son and I are in another state. I told him he cares more about his friends than he do me along with putting them before me and he didn't say a thing. I couldn't take him wanting to be a bachelor while we already have one child and now another on the way

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tt194210

TianaВ ожидании первенца

honestly I would kick his friend's out or make them pay some bills

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