ok ladies..this might be tmi,but i really need advice or suggestions!! ever since i was about 3…
ok ladies..this might be tmi,but i really need advice or suggestions!!
ever since i was about 3 months along,sex has been really uncomfortable,and me and my fiance dont do it a lot(not because hes not attracted or because of the baby,nothing will stop that man lol) but when we do,it burns and feels like something really sharp is poking me down there and it brings me to tears most of the time,but i dont show him that cuz he'll feel terrible,i just want to make him happy.its not gonna make us or break us if we do or dont have sex,its just something i dont wanna take away from him.any advice would help!
Kim Green·
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I'm currently going through the same thing my OB advised me to try water based lubricant and it helped and now we use it all the time and I'm 32 weeks
littlemama113·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (27 нед.)
not to try and be all up in your business but does it feel normal again?and what brand and how much did you use?i tried a ky kind and it made it worse😡 but i didnt check of it was water based.
@kiwkisses
Kim Green·
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I went to the sex store and bought WET and yes it helped plenty and try putting a pillow behind your back so it won't be so much pressure on your uterus. its okay ask as many questions as you like
Elizabeth·
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I have the same problem we tried lube and it made it burn down there but I don't think the lube was water based but I'm sorry I don't have any advice I just wanted to let you know you're not alone
littlemama113·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (27 нед.)
@kiwkisses, thank you so much!i appreciate it.like i said its not that he will leave me or cheat over it,but its frustrating for me cuz he knows it hurts and it sucks.i will try that one if i can find it.
@belles_mom428. i tried one too and seen it was like a jelly type texture..felt like hell literally.
its ok,glad im not the only one,cuz its frustrating!!
Kim Green·
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I understand its really hard and its the same ways with my husband
Desaray·
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@littlemama113, you are not alone it feels fine until we are done and it burn after for what feels like forever. That's why we haven't had sex in weeks I feel bad and I think he's becoming less patient.
littlemama113·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (27 нед.)
oh as soon as we start its nothing but burning and misery.i feel terrible!
@desi720
Janelle·
Мама двоих (4 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
you could have an infection
Nina·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Water based lubricant is my best friend I also find it easier if I'm on top or doggy style when he is on top it hurts more for me
littlemama113·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (27 нед.)
@jaeparm, i already discussed that with my dr. and was in labor and delivery for a check down there it was a uti and no infection.
@nichols41418 im ok if im on top still a little uncomfortable,but i need to invest in water based lube for sure!
Melissa·
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I have this problem too. water based lubricant helps, and make sure you use plenty of it, I have to be the one to lube us up because my husband doesn't use enough lol. being on top REALLY helps me, I can't have my husband on top, the pressure on my belly made the pressure on my uterus worse. I personally don't care if I orgasm at this point, I just care that it doesn't hurt lol. this is the one time that I feel lucky that my husband finishes pretty quickly lol. I try to still give it to him at least once a week, cause I feel terrible if we go too long between.