OK ladies I really really need your help so of course before me my boyfriend used to date some girl…

I hate that! Smh ugh... 😑 men I swear. Lol

I don't think you're wrong, but you guys are a family unit now. if he doesn't make the payment, it'll hit his credit score and make it harder for you both to buy a house, get a car, thinks like that. I totally get where you are coming from, but just try and look at it as a whole

I mean my boyfriend helps me pay my credit cards that I had maxed out before we got together. If you guys plan to get married ever and he still has those his debt does become your debt since you are becoming basically one person. Just like I'd help my boyfriend pay anything.

Not trying to bash you or anything everyone has there own perspective on stuff like that! That's just my opinion

@jnanzer94, well I'm different because he did that credit card and he spoiled her and I'm not paying for something he did with another woman@emily18234 I mean I have debt too but I'm gonna fix mines and it's nothing big like, idk I'm just confused this time I feel like Im not wrong @emily18234 @lexirosex3 I know 😑

I never said you were wrong by any means! I wouldn't be so open to being helpful with paying the credit cards either, but I'm also planning to get married and buying a house before the end of the year which is the only reason I'd help him keep up on payments.

I think the fact that the money was spent on another girl is irrelevant. If he's in debt and needs your help and you're in a position to help, you should. But that should also work both ways, if you need help with bills and he is in a position to help you, he shouldn't hesitate to help you.

@jnanzer94, I see what you're saying my situation is different when I getting married anytime soon LOL I see what you're saying though

@mommytobesari, I like that ture i'm just so.... 😑 maybe it's the pregnancy hormones😒

Nope his credit car debt is his responsibility.. You two aren't married either.. So no u keep doing ur thing and maybe encourage him to get a second job to pay his credit.. Help everywhere else but the credit card is HIM

I'd work on my own debt first while helping with whatever is current (like rent/lights) between you. He can work on his cc debt and his part of current bills. No big deal, I'd think.

I don't think you're in the wrong. If he hasn't put a ring on your finger, you're not responsible for his debt. Helping with bills is one thing since y'all live together. But he dug himself that hole, so he better put it right himself IMO. Now if y'all get married, that'd be a different story but I'd cross that bridge when I got there. Not fair for him to be pissed that you're not paying his bills, especially seeing it was spent on some chick before.

@motherof2taurusboys, don't give me wrong he has a great job that pays awesome The problem is that he's mad because I told him I don't care about that credit card because that's something he did w his ex-girlfriend

@rgaine, I pay rent and he pays light nd cable

Oh ok well u r right

@mama932, sounds like it's fair. He's paying off his stuff and you're paying off yours. If you finish first it's not like you won't still be contributing to the baby, home, etc.

@motherof2taurusboys, 😊

@rgaine, right