I'm getting so fed up with my mother. She keeps telling me that I need to have this baby now. And when I say I would like my husband to be home before she comes, she just says no that he don't need to be there! Well guess what? Keep pushing for him not to be there, and your ass will not be called until after the baby comes! My husband has been there for our first 2. Why can't he be there for our third? It's his daughter not yours. You didn't help make her in any way shape or form. So back tf off!
Sorry I needed to vent a little!
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@deannapooley, I hope the same for you. At least your family knows there place when you have your baby cuz it's how it's gonna go. But mine is still up in the air. @sarahdrew Thank you for your support. But some days it's to much for me to handle.
@jeanie, i don't understand how our parents can be this way you know your own body and babies like to play Made'cha looks games! I hope things get better for you!
don't give up mama, you have 2 beautiful babies and one on the way..... you have all of us for support
@sarahdrew, Yeah my life is hell. I just want to give up.
@deannapooley, @sarahdrew My mom has been texting me saying "oh dad and I have a feeling in our stomach and wanted to check in on you and see how your doing." And I'm like I'm fine. The same as before. I understand that they are worried cuz I'm an hour from my doctor and a half hour away from them. So if something does happen, Yeah it'll be hard. And I'm home alone with 2 small kids. Ok I get that. But still. I'm an adult and I will know when it's time to go in. I was the one who told my husband this weekend that I think we should go in and get checked out cuz I was having contractions every 5 minutes. I listened to no one but my own feelings. And it wasn't time, but I still made the decision to go. And my husband is getting to the point that he wants to blow up at her and he knows if he does, it'll make my life a living hell.
@sarahdrew, sounds exactly like my mom! To the T! She got all upset because im having a csection and not even my hisband can be in the room because im being put to sleep because the epidural doesnt work on me and shes all mad! I told her she wasnt going to any dr appointments because she is so rude and would try to take over too! I know easier said then done but try to avoid her for a couple days
@sarahdrew, That don't bother my husband. But if my mom keeps acting like she is, I'll just have another one and she'll have no choice but to wait
our nurse offered to take pictures (I was in the or tho) so my husband wouldn't have to look at my belly being cut open
@sarahdrew, That's what I'm thinking. I'm so done with it. I want my husband there. The only reason I wanted my mom in the room is cuz she could take pictures of when she was laid on my chest and my husband would be in the pictures with me. that's the only reason why
did the Dr listen?? @jeanie that is so so wrong.... I had 2 c-sections, the first was emergency so even my husband wasn't allowed in and the second only my husband was allowed in..... girl you definitely don't need this stress.... I honestly wouldn't tell her when you go to have the baby
@deannapooley, @sarahdrew I think my mom is being this way cuz she knows my husband don't want her in the room when I push her out. And she has never seen her grand babies born before cuz I had 2 c-sections and only my husband could be with me. And my sisters baby's father may be a dip shit but he still deserves to be there when his daughter is born. I love my mom, but I can't take this shit right now. I'm due any day. And on top of it, She took over my appt today and asked my doc to sweep my membranes without asking me. Like WTF, this is my pregnancy and my baby, and on top of it MY BODY! I'm just so pissed right now!
OMG @deannapooley honestly the nerve.... just because you get to sort of choose your baby's birthday doesn't mean you will choose her birthday as the day, I wouldn't want my baby having the same birthday as her grandmother
@sarahdrew, @jeanie ive already told my mom she isn't aloud at the hospital till the next day lol shes so mad because my due date is 2 days before my moms birthday and shes mad because im planned c section and not having the baby on her birthday 🙄 then she got mad at me for not middle naming my daughter after her
why on earth is she doing this to you and your sister @jeanie
@deannapooley, My mom has convinced my little sister to not call the father of her baby until after the baby comes. Well that's not gonna happen. I'm not gonna make myself go into labor on perhaps when I know daddy is over 10 hours away. Not gonna happen
my lands seriously?? you mom needs a reality check @jeanie apparently so does yours @deannapooley if it was me I wouldn't tell them I was in labor
you are welcome... I am here to lend an ear if needed mama