my mom had me 3 months before turning 18. she wasn't married or was with my dad. I'm 21 with my…
my mom had me 3 months before turning 18.
she wasn't married or was with my dad.
I'm 21 with my first baby, just told my parents I'm pregnant.
and made me like the worst person on earth.
I understand.
but why did she reacted that way if she had me younger?
she didn't even told me I'm here or at least something positive whatever it was.
she just got mad and told me how she can't believe I did this and not married and I disappointed her.
I know girl that had babies younger than me and their parents have been there all through.
I feel alone, like the worst person on earth and I don't want this baby now Cuz I don't want to bring him to a world where only I and his dad seem to want him. this is not what I wanted for him or her.
Chela·
maybe she just wants you to do better than her. I had my kids when i was super young. If any of my daughters would have a baby younger, not married, still not have a carrer i would be upset. I would be scared for them, i would hate for them to have to go thru what i when thru. I am sure she will love your baby no matter what. Give her some time. :) oh and congrats
Melisa·
@chela915 thank you for your words and time to comment and that's what I try to realized but she reacted so cold towards it and made me feel like the worst person on earth when I was happy with my baby even tho I knew it wouldn't be easy
Chela·
i bet she was scared, surprise, emotional, hormonal. But i can also bet and you will remember me she will be crazy in love with the baby. I am sure you are hurt and ofcourse she is your mom just give her space and time. @lilcherry
Elizabeth·
Мама дочки (4 года)
I know how you feel my mom was like that with my first baby and now I'm pregnant again 4 years later and have to tell her I'm pregnant today and she's going to flip out and probably not talk to me