apparently it's selfish to pump and bottle feed than have her on my boob for 2 hours when I also have a 2 yr old needing mommy too. excuse me for pumping 20 min and having extra bottles to feed and still having time with my other daughter. at least I'm breastfeeding well giving breast milk to my newborn. I have nothing against formula but I felt guilty when I couldn't give my toddler breast milk so I can give my newborn milk and I feel accomplished it shouldn't matter how I give it to her