All I ever wanted was my daughter to have both parents

You 100% right, my father raised my brother since he was 2, he's 35 now and has become a great man because of it @caisner

my step father who to me is my one and only father is said anyone can make kids that don't make them a parent what makes them a parent is being there everyday helping and caring for the child and not going out doing things and. not helping with the child etc