I would call him or text him.if he doesn't show that will weigh on him for the rest of his life.u did everything you could and more. .only reason I say tell him is because I would still need that signature so I can place that ass on child support. since he wanna be a child so bad

He will act stupid like he's frustrated at the situation but nah he knows what he's doing ...

Wow nd well a real mAn won't make excuses so he knows what he's doing

I told him that. like this is not the time walk out and leave and you can forget about me calling you @v_daloca

well my brother was living here before him and my boyfriend is the one who wanted to move in with me and "help" me. my mom is only here cause she's helping and excited to be a grandma and my cousin cause my brother is trying to get a job with my brother. either he's not used to it or idk what..but this is just what the situation is right now. before it was about him smoking weed all the time but now it's just more of his insecurities and jealousy. @stephrox

I would've said if he leaves then he can forget about being the father

@newmommy2be91, I think it is petty as well, although, I can relate with him only in the aspect of the possibility he may deal with social anxiety around people he isn't 100% comfortable around. it's one thing to go to their house and socialize for short periods, its a little different for an introvert to have their personal space be intruded it can be a little intimidating and extroverts don't exactly get it. believe me, I get where all these ladies are coming from. but if this is the only issue, and it isn't drugs, or drinking or abuse or cheating. imo, I say you should talk w him and see if you can come to an agreement, if he wants time w u he has to tell u. but he can't get mad for you helping family or even if u want to spend time with them. just be aware of his needs too. 💚 I hope it works out. I know I have my issues as well in life and honestly. in my shoes, if he messes up anymore I won't be w him nor will I call him or name him the name he chose. he can see him if he can be sober and only around me . he isn't taking my baby anywhere w how he acts at times. Hope any of this is helpful. ! 💖

Yea it wasn't that serious to begin with. you gotta be really insecure to do some shit like that and not care. *sigh* Idk...and for somebody who said "oh I don't have a place to go" he sure left pretty quick. unless he's gonna sleep in his car. that's really childish and immature.

he'll no! he knows when ur due date he knows your due anytime! what a messed up thing he did he just doesn't want to grow up and have possibilities like helping you taking care of your child

I mean if you ca walk out cause you're intimated by everyone here and at a time like this, you're not a man. them being here is temporary and its not like anyone doesn't show him love or talk to him. he's just looking for attention so he'll isolate himself sometimes and it's just gotten really out of hand...he's 31 acting like he's 18.

he left over something so petty so small. at least its small in my eyes. I have a lot of people staying here in my house well my mom, brother, and cousin and he feels "excluded" or left out but he's just overly sensitive and insecure..he got upset cause I was laying down on the couch next to my mom and not with him. or he was waiting in the bedroom for two hours when I'm in the living room! literally the other room. its eally dumb honestly lol like little kid shit.

I won't. In my situation I'm not going to either although he been dumped me.

I would atleast text him. That is what I am planning on doing. If he responds great, if not, it's his loss.

No!!

That's really hard 😔 I would at least let him know, but that is just me. I'm still considering what I'm even going to do. My baby's father won't speak to me no matter what I say except if I show up at his house, he will text me for like a day. I don't know if he deserves to know but I don't know if that is our call either.

Nope! He already knows you could give birth at anytime.