Warning this is a rant!:
so to try to keep this short I'll just jump my way into the question. Do you ever resent your husband/significant other/baby daddy for not helping up enough? I'm not a traditional minded person what so ever. before I became a mother I had always worked, didn't think house chores are for the woman to complete, and I stood up for my beliefs. now that I'm mom, I think I do everything to keep my house clean, family taken care of, work part time, and attend to every need that my daughter has(she has a gtube). my bf does nothing to help, except when I work. we also have a lazy roommate...so I clean his shit up too. I feel burnt out, stressed, resentful, sad....
I feel like, if I asked him for more help, he'd say "why, if I already worked all day and make more money?" am I a bad person/gf for being mad? all I want is a more engaged, helpful bf that gets it.
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some of the stuff I see on here, like rooms, beds, houses, etc is disgusting! you claim you're a sahm and your husband works hard, then help him out and let him come home to a clean house, bed, sheets, etc🤷🏻♀️
need suggestions....
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do you...
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So since my husband and i seem to have issues Asking what we need of each other and when we do it it seems over whelming so I’ve decided once a month we ask each other for something we need either more emotional support , help around the house etc and we work on it and try to make each other happy by fulfilling the other persons need . So it’s not too overwhelming and we slowly change ourselves to fit the other persons needs .
You're not alone girlfriend. I feel the same way too! I would love for my hubby to help without me asking him too.. He's getting better though but it was a complete disaster in the beginning and I was loosing it and I hated it and resented him.