It's been so hard for me to go public on FB and Instagram about my pregnancy with "friends" since I've been pestered about it in my daily life so much. After losing the girls, you'd think people would treat it lightly but it makes me just want to keep it close and communicate with other moms who can relate after a loss.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
ok yall so I went to the doctor today and I have not dilated. none at all after everything I've been doing so there bring me in tomorrow to start me on cervidil or something like that anybody no anything about it?
*UPDATE* Ladiessssss so I was debating on sharing this information as it means a lot to me so at my anatomy appointment they are referring me to get a second more detailed sonogram specifically for the babies heart. They are telling me that my babies heart is undelvoped on the left side and that it is possible that she will need heart surgery after i deliver. There sending me to a whole nother hospital and the damn doctor even said that i might wanna consider ending my pregnancy 😩 smh all this is news i don’t wanna hear bc everything else with this baby is perfectly fine ! Even her heartbeat ! I most definitely don’t even wanna think about ending my pregnancy!!! So I’m confused at this point i never been through this before . I definitely need this second look bc I’m so scared . Please keep me in your prayers 🙏🏽
To everyone that's been following me and my son thank you so much but sad to say chance has past away,do to what we believe was murder on 10-21-15 ,2weeks after my birthday ,so after today I'm leaving preggie ,maybe for a few months or maybe until I'm blessed with other baby ,rest easy baby boy chance Lee
So about 3 weeks ago I had a miscarriage... I haven't posted about it as it's been a crappy few weeks and been getting my head around it all.. well today I've been having clear mucus when I wipe (tmi sorry). It's been happening the past few days, I've been tired, appetite has been up and down, bloated etc.. I know the right thing to do is take a test but how long after a miscarriage is it possible to be pregnant? I'm not sure whether it's just ovulation that could be happening.. I'm so confused😩
Jennie·
Мама троих детей
@babybonbon, your welcome sweetheart...remember this is your happiness..Ppl will have negativity towards u...but if they wanna be this way towards u and not be there for u and not happy for u...then they aren't ur ur friends or family..cuz no matter what u are going thru...they should always be there for u...and trust me I found out who my true friends and family are...and I'm distancing myself away from them....it's not healthy for u...
A.🌙✨·
Мама дочки (2 года)
I'm so thankful for strong and supportive women, thank you @jennie825
Jennie·
Мама троих детей
@babybonbon, good..and u need that...and I've been doing the same thing..
u have to do this for u..or ull be miserable..be happy with this pregnancy hun
A.🌙✨·
Мама дочки (2 года)
Yeah I really let it affect me early in my pregnancy that I didn't really get to sit down and unwind to focus on my little one. I've been more confident and not letting hormones take over and spend time talking to baby @jennie825
Jennie·
Мама троих детей
hang in there hun@babybonbon it will get better..you have us here ...we will never judge u...and I'm sure other ppl with come around too.give it time...but don't let it ruin ur happiness...ur better than that...
A.🌙✨·
Мама дочки (2 года)
Thank you so much! @janinee
Janine Fuentes·
Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (39 нед.)
well unfortunately people will talk no matter what. You just need go block those ignorant negative people out of your life. If they were truly your friends they would be happy for you. I can only imagine what you've been through but I believe everything happens for a reason. we may not understand it now but we will someday. Stay strong honey. I'm here if you need to talk! @babybonbon
A.🌙✨·
Мама дочки (2 года)
Thank you!! I'm learning each day. I felt so emotional and angry in the beginning because of it but having ladies like y'all and family makes it easier. @jennie825
A.🌙✨·
Мама дочки (2 года)
Thank you! I've told family but what happened with my daughters was out of my hands and it's super annoying when people who don't know TTS say they are concerned for me and feel like it's so sudden. You're right, I shouldn't stress. It's been so hard though because people are so ignorant about it. You're so sweet @janinee
Jennie·
Мама троих детей
I was the same way hun...I was afraid of what ppl would say about me...but I let it go...if your happy...don't worry what other ppl think...you have so many of us here that will support u...and think this is what God wanted for you...
Janine Fuentes·
Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (39 нед.)
We're all here to support you! It sucks that you can't be open with your loved ones but you don't need the extra stress of feeling judged. Live your life & enjoy this pregnancy. so sorry for your loss. But this baby is here for a reason!
deleted-user·
Amen!!