It's been so hard for me to go public on FB and Instagram about my pregnancy with "friends" since I've been pestered about it in my daily life so much. After losing the girls, you'd think people would treat it lightly but it makes me just want to keep it close and communicate with other moms who can relate after a loss.
@babybonbon, good..and u need that...and I've been doing the same thing..
u have to do this for u..or ull be miserable..be happy with this pregnancy hun
Yeah I really let it affect me early in my pregnancy that I didn't really get to sit down and unwind to focus on my little one. I've been more confident and not letting hormones take over and spend time talking to baby @jennie825
hang in there hun@babybonbon it will get better..you have us here ...we will never judge u...and I'm sure other ppl with come around too.give it time...but don't let it ruin ur happiness...ur better than that...
well unfortunately people will talk no matter what. You just need go block those ignorant negative people out of your life. If they were truly your friends they would be happy for you. I can only imagine what you've been through but I believe everything happens for a reason. we may not understand it now but we will someday. Stay strong honey. I'm here if you need to talk! @babybonbon
Thank you!! I'm learning each day. I felt so emotional and angry in the beginning because of it but having ladies like y'all and family makes it easier. @jennie825
Thank you! I've told family but what happened with my daughters was out of my hands and it's super annoying when people who don't know TTS say they are concerned for me and feel like it's so sudden. You're right, I shouldn't stress. It's been so hard though because people are so ignorant about it. You're so sweet @janinee
I was the same way hun...I was afraid of what ppl would say about me...but I let it go...if your happy...don't worry what other ppl think...you have so many of us here that will support u...and think this is what God wanted for you...
@babybonbon, your welcome sweetheart...remember this is your happiness..Ppl will have negativity towards u...but if they wanna be this way towards u and not be there for u and not happy for u...then they aren't ur ur friends or family..cuz no matter what u are going thru...they should always be there for u...and trust me I found out who my true friends and family are...and I'm distancing myself away from them....it's not healthy for u...