😮 sorry I can't post this on facebook... doesn't havw anything to do with pregnancy but does have to do with my daughter. My adoptive parents are giving us a house😮 we told them our plans to move to Tuscaloosa and buy a house up there so to keep up here they are just giving us a house, I'm so thankful for them but at the same time i feel like we havent earned that because we didnt pay for it... They told us all we have to pay for is renovations and that B's nursery would come setup for her and so would our room.... the last bedroom is going to be setup as a toy/guest room. I am so excited that we will be getting out the one bedroom part of me just wishes they would like make us pay something for it, I hate feeling like i didn't earn something but my mom insist us be across the road from them
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@rhonda.otero that's what it is, I didn't know what to say to them but I'm very thankful and can't wait until we get to fix it up that way my little sister can have it one day... that'll be my gift back to them
Congrats!! Humbly accept and take great care of the house. Know that they love you and want the best for your family.. In their eyes you deserve it and even if you feel you don't they think that you do.. Sometimes people are so used to being strong and independent that when people acknowledge it, it makes you feel a bit uncomfortable but know they seen the struggle and watched you prosper and are just proud of you
@daydreamingofsleep thank you, I was trying to make sure that it wasn't wrong to accept it. Heck we need them as much as they need us, every day my mom or dad will bring B something new
@mrsmitchell thank you so much, it means alot to me. I didn't wanna leave because I'd miss them but Joe is dead set on our children picking to go to University of Alabama
That's all they need love and of course to see their beautiful granddaughter lol just live in your blessings!
@mrsmitchell @daydreamingofsleep I guess because my birth mother and father would have never it just surprised me, I had no idea what to even say to them other than I love y'all of course I'm hormonal and cried but you know I've had a job since 14 and had to work long hours jist to have to hand my whole check over to my mother to " take care of me" so this is new the only people I've had that cared were my grandparents and of course now joseph and my adoptive parents just really dont know what to say to them other than thank you
You earned it because you're their daughter and they love you. Take it as a blessing continue to make them proud and lead a good life. That will be how you pay them back. That's all most parents want. It's not about the money.
@lashellg most definitely I hugged her and didn't know what to say when she told me. I grew up after my grandparents died and was given nothing I worked for everything I had so to just be handed a house I was completely speechless and sort of felt bad:/
I feel that you have earned it in your own way. Look at it as a blessing bc not too many times that chance or opportunity comes around.
That's awesome and I love a fixer upper :) take your time and make it great