I'm a single mom of a 5month old haven't been with the day since June...so I've been doing it all on my own since then.. From being hospital bound for two weeks and giving birth to my little one two months early (8weeks) . I'm ready to adventure out and meet people. But how do you do it with a baby? I feel it's so much harder now for me... I see dudes I talk to them and then I tell them I have a kid and they are so interested in my story of the hospital stay & then nothing. I'm starting to get kinda lonely... It sucks. I am back to work and my grandma watches my baby 7-5pm.. Long hours I know. :( I went back early cause I needed money. But every so often I go to Starbucks and the same guy is working the drive thru window, and to me he is attractive. He smiles, calls me Hun, will ask me what I do at work etc. I wanna somehow get his attention and pass him my number ... How should I do it? Most of the time their is a line behind me so not much time for small talk. I just don't wanna feel dumb in the long run... :// it's hard and I'm just trying to get out more. Any advice?
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I appreciate it. I think it's cause when I do get the free time to go out everyone is all coupled up and I'm just sitting there by myself just there.. Apart of me feels ready but a point but I wanna try to date and see if I'm officially ready..I just sometimes wanna have that 'person' to go to
Why are you lonely? I feel once you are okay with be single and doing your thing, is the time to find love. Right now your emotional, sad, and lonely. I swear to you once you find happiness outside of a relationship, you will find the right guy. I see so many in your shoes and then get in a relationship and end up with the same issues because they weren't ready for the relationship. It hasn't been long enough to get over the last one. I say get yourself ready every day, hang out with your baby, visit friends, find a hobby, and make yourself happy girl! Sorry for the long rant. Just thought I would share from my point of view.
I love my baby and she makes me happy everyday but sometimes I wonder what it's like to have that person .. There. I guess I envy people like that I only went 32 weeks in my pregnancy and I envy my brothers gf who gets to do the cute maternity photos with him etc. I have my days and moments