so i tried working things out with my daughters' dad, but he wants me to move back with him to his parents house which i really disagree with.. since it was a living hell over there. i love this man but he hurt me in every way possible :/ ive been beaten by him, cheated on, accused of things that werent true, left indoors all day when he went out, plus i was laughed at by little girls he would hook up with. i dont know what to do.. he swears to love me and to change for his daughters but im not sure about it..
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I grew up with an abusive dad to my mom never to me but let me tell you I use to beg my mother to move on and leave him. I am now 27 and fear a lot of things I've had to do therapy and take medication for anxiety and panic attacks. Don't do that to your baby girl. I understand how hard this must be for you right now but love yourself girl. Like the other ladies said no one deserves this. Stay strong
Move on! if you go back you will live a life of hell and misery.Love your self enough to never go back.
nope nope nope. y'all broke up for a reason and the number one reason should be because he beat you followed by cheating on you. Then it seems he has control issues since you said he makes you stay inside. It just sounds like a disaster waiting to happen. I hope you make the right decision. be strong
thank you girls @reaganmommy2015 @preg_bunny @twinmommy123 @dontberidiculous @alexandrea777 @sandee_gianna805 &@elijahsmomma your words were really helpful girls
answer this do you want your daughter to grow up with a dad that beats the mother ? you want her to see that think of her first
that's the vicious cycle of an abuser and a victim Trust i kno.... He wants you back their under his control. Do for you and your babies Hun. im sure its hard because you love him. but love shouldn't hurt you like that.
i feel like he just uses me sometimes since his car broke down he's been saying that he needs me and im the only one he talks to but lately he hasnt talked to me much.. my daughter is gonna be born anyday now and i really wanted him to be in the babys' lives
Hmm. I would say no. That's what EVERY abuser says. The answer should be no. And if he's that bad to you, you don't need to have your kids around that, to see that or possibly become victims of that. Run, run far away.
girl it sounds like you would be best off without. you deserve and can do so much better! You deserve to be treated better
Your happiness and safety is WAY more important! If he has put his hands on you, it's not safe for your children either. And no child should see their mother emotionally or physically abused
I would have him prove it to you sometimes actions speak louder then words
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
It happened....?
2.5 years and today was the day he heard me fart. I thought I could crop dust him, but it came out full force. He looked at me and busted out laughing. ?
so idk what to do im supposed to be moving out with my bf, baby daddy he is 14 yrs older then me and he has his niece that is 25 that lives with him and she has a daughter that's almost 6 but on day she was being stupid and told me that I might have her daughters dad closer then me then i though since then we have had lots of fights about it and he always says it's not his daughter but why would she say that and why would he have gotten so mad when i questioned him about it and every time he pos...
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I need to rant really quick and I am expecting honest answers from some mamas on here! Tell me if I’m wrong. Couple months ago my boyfriend got into an accident and went through a coma, was in a rehab center and for weeks. I was only with him for the first 3 days of him being in the hospital cause him mom kicked me out and didn’t let me see him for months. When he woke up from his coma she lied to me told me that he didn’t remember me or his daughter! When she fo...
Soooooo jeb has been i guess clingy. For the last 3-4 days he has always tried to crawl to me or crawl out his room to me. Or he is in his walker and rolls over to me.
He is now in his room crying at the door because he cant get out to get to me.
He will be 1yr in a few weeks. Is this a leap thing or what???
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#ftm
Be with someone you would want your child to be with