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pearl medina
pearl medina
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (39 нед.)

so i tried working things out with my daughters' dad, but he wants me to move back with him to his parents house which i…

so i tried working things out with my daughters' dad, but he wants me to move back with him to his parents house which i really disagree with.. since it was a living hell over there. i love this man but he hurt me in every way possible :/ ive been beaten by him, cheated on, accused of things that werent true, left indoors all day when he went out, plus i was laughed at by little girls he would hook up with. i dont know what to do.. he swears to love me and to change for his daughters but im not sure about it..

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lanibobonni

Leilani Musgrave

Be with someone you would want your child to be with

mommabeardurso

Jesabel

Мама дочки (1 год)

I grew up with an abusive dad to my mom never to me but let me tell you I use to beg my mother to move on and leave him. I am now 27 and fear a lot of things I've had to do therapy and take medication for anxiety and panic attacks. Don't do that to your baby girl. I understand how hard this must be for you right now but love yourself girl. Like the other ladies said no one deserves this. Stay strong

bellen27

Luz Zuniga

Мама сына (2 года)

Move on! if you go back you will live a life of hell and misery.Love your self enough to never go back.

greenlandbroker

Nichole

I'd move on..you deserve better!

sexii_diiva

Mrs.Pin to you 😉

Мама сына (1 год)

nope nope nope. y'all broke up for a reason and the number one reason should be because he beat you followed by cheating on you. Then it seems he has control issues since you said he makes you stay inside. It just sounds like a disaster waiting to happen. I hope you make the right decision. be strong

medina.purrrl

pearl medina

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (39 нед.)

thank you girls @reaganmommy2015 @preg_bunny @twinmommy123 @dontberidiculous @alexandrea777 @sandee_gianna805 &@elijahsmomma your words were really helpful girls

elijahsmomma

Eli's Mum

В ожидании первенца

stay strong ♡

sandee_gianna805

Sandra Garcia

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answer this do you want your daughter to grow up with a dad that beats the mother ? you want her to see that think of her first

alexandrea777

Alexandrea Torres

Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна

that's the vicious cycle of an abuser and a victim Trust i kno.... He wants you back their under his control. Do for you and your babies Hun. im sure its hard because you love him. but love shouldn't hurt you like that.

medina.purrrl

pearl medina

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (39 нед.)

i feel like he just uses me sometimes since his car broke down he's been saying that he needs me and im the only one he talks to but lately he hasnt talked to me much.. my daughter is gonna be born anyday now and i really wanted him to be in the babys' lives

dontberidiculous

dontberidiculous

Мама сына (8 лет), беременна (32 нед.)

Hmm. I would say no. That's what EVERY abuser says. The answer should be no. And if he's that bad to you, you don't need to have your kids around that, to see that or possibly become victims of that. Run, run far away.

twinmommy123

cassidy

Мама двоих (2 года, 2 года), ждёт третьего

girl it sounds like you would be best off without. you deserve and can do so much better! You deserve to be treated better

unconventionalmom

Lauren

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (23 нед.)

Your happiness and safety is WAY more important! If he has put his hands on you, it's not safe for your children either. And no child should see their mother emotionally or physically abused

reaganmommy2015

Martee 💋💋

Мама троих детей

I would have him prove it to you sometimes actions speak louder then words

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

so idk what to do im supposed to be moving out with my bf, baby daddy he is 14 yrs older then me and he has his niece…

so idk what to do im supposed to be moving out with my bf, baby daddy he is 14 yrs older then me and he has his niece that is 25 that lives with him and she has a daughter that's almost 6 but on day she was being stupid and told me that I might have her daughters dad closer then me then i though since then we have had lots of fights about it and he always says it's not his daughter but why would she say that and why would he have gotten so mad when i questioned him about it and every time he post pictures and stuff about her he puts my daughter i am honestly double thinking this if I should move or not im 22 and 6 months pregnant!?????

EDIT : this post is very long.

EDIT : this post is very long. I need to rant really quick and I am expecting honest answers from some mamas on here! Tell me if I’m wrong. Couple months ago my boyfriend got into an accident and went through a coma, was in a rehab center and for weeks. I was only with him for the first 3 days of him being in the hospital cause him mom kicked me out and didn’t let me see him for months. When he woke up from his coma she lied to me told me that he didn’t remember me or his daughter! When she found out I was pregnant by him she tried to make everyone plus him believe that I cheated on him and got pregnant by someone else but even though she said that he still didn’t believe her which made me really happy! I wrote to her every single day since she kicked me out the hospital and she gave me nothing but hell and lies and even said she didn’t want to know about her own granddaughter. This story is extremely long so to not bore you guys out let me get to the point, he told me I could go to his house for Father’s Day and bring our babygirl and he wants to feel baby in the belly move BUT I was never allowed in his house cause of his mother and father. am I wrong for not wanting to step a foot in a house full of people who enjoyed to make my life miserable for months or better yet told me that she wants nothing to do with my daughter, and Is trying to convince him that baby on the way isn’t his?? I told him we can meet up with us aid (he needs a aid due to complications from his accident) and go out for dinner but he doesn’t want that. He already has a 5 year old daughter that his family adores ( but they can’t stand my daughter ) he wants them both together but I told him I don’t feel comfortable being in a house full of people who literally prayed for him to not remember me or his daughter! No one has apologized or tried to make things better just worse. I tried to make arrangements for us but he thinks I just don’t want his family around my daughter and he’s damn right! Those people will never get to be around my daughter ever again after all this stress they’ve caused!! Someone people tell me I’m not over exaggerating 😥

So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him…

So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him to be punish for hurting me. What should i do? I have naked pics of him i want to put out. I want to call his job get him fired. Im so hurt. This is his first child n he dont even want to be here for the birth. 4 damn yrs n it come to this. What should i do? I want Revenge