This girl I used to dance with is also my younger cousin's best friend. Her son just turned one and she still claims to not know who the father is. She told my cousin she tested 2 guys she was "so sure" of but neither were the dad. Her mom told my MIL's bestie that she tested 5 guys from church alone and none were the dad and none were the guys she told my cousin about. So this girl tested 7 men that may have been the father but were not. My cousin was like oh come on you can only get pregnant a certain amount of time in a month how many guys were you with... Now she's saying it was a blackout drunk night (she was 19) and it was after she did a music festival. I actually have a suspicion of who the dad is based on dates matching up and pictures of him that look like the child but he isn't one she tested and it isn't my place to say. I feel so bad that this baby is growing up without a father. On top of it all my cousin is very disappointed in her friend because she hasn't changed her ways since becoming a mother and even getting a good guy for a BF. This girl hooked up with my fiancé months before he and I started dating and so Bc he decided he didn't want her she has a hatred towards me Bc we are engaged and are having our 2nd child. Part of me wishes there was someway my fiancé was his dad Bc I have a soft spot for this baby boy and I wish I could love him like my own!! She is like never around her kid and even went out with friends on his first birthday. I see this baby at church in the nursery with my son who is 3 months older than him and I just want to hug him!! He is always wanting me to pick him up but I can't and laughs when I talk to him. The girl's mother is basically raising this sweet boy and she is so wonderful to him. But I have a secret wish that he and my son will grow up and be best friends so I can be like his "other mom" you know how your bffs parents can be like your own lol I know this is so weird but if you saw his sweet chunky smile you would have your heart stolen by him too!!
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damn. she only hates you because you have the prize ;) but I swear I'll never understand how some women do it :/ I can't even leave my girls for a day without calling or video chat. breaks my heart! what kinda church you ppl attending ?! lol jkjk
@Jonasmomma16, that is exactly like this girl!! She's been with her new guy a few months now which is good for her but whenever I see her she's not with the baby or she's posting pics with friends or her man and at church when her son was small she would sit on the other side of the church and her parents held the baby. She also just lost her license Bc she got charged with a DUI and she's under 21. As ridiculous as this chick is I don't hate her, I used to dislike her Bc she hates me, but I do pray for her every single night that she gets her act together for this child.
that's horrible. I know a girl like that in my town and my husband used to mess with her. everytime I go out somewhere I see her and she never has her son but she's always got a new boyfriend.
@Jonasmomma16, she is certifiably insane. We both wish he were the dad Bc we want that little boy. Probably more than she does. But probably not more than his grandma she is basically his mother.
@jonasmomma16, she was admitted to Tucker's for 4 months and when she got out went wild and slept around. My fiancé said that if there was any chance of him being the dad that he would've taken her to court for custody before she even had the baby if it was possible but we were already together and expecting our own child when she got pregnant by whoever. I feel so bad for this baby.
Nope not a chance. They hooked up 3 months before he and I started dating. He said he didn't even kiss her Bc her mouth was gross looking (and it is) but they hooked up and after a few minutes he was like not feeling it so he pretended to finish and left. She blew up his phone and he told her he was sorry but he just wasn't interested in hooking up again and she tried to kill herself by jumping off of a roof. @ho nasmomma16
is your fiance a chance of being the father? I absolutely hate reading about women who have no idea and I don't care, but that's a whore and so sad that child will have to deal with that. :(
You have a good heart trying to look after him.
It cut off but I meant to say:
"But if you saw this baby's sweet chunky smile he'd steal your heart too!!"
Haha it's a nondenominational church. My sons teacher got fired Bc he was one of the guys she tested but wasn't the dad. He's 30 and she was 19 at the time and used to be in his class when she was younger. Scandalous right? He's not allowed to work with kids at all now even though she was of legal age it screwed his reputation up. She used to sit where she could see my fiancé and I and I would catch her staring us down with the meanest eyes ever and this was before I got pregnant. It only got worse after it was like I could feel her stabbing me in her head I was like if she can see us we have to change seats. @jonasmomma16