quick vent! my boyfriend who I've been dated for 4years we have a two year old son and is also…

You've been together for 4 years & all of a sudden he says he doesn't trust you? That's weird

I was like that with my husband in the beginning of our marriage but he helped me through it. I trust him completely now. Talk to him about it and work it out. So happy that my husband had lots of patience for me.

Ask him where this insecurity comes from all of a sudden and tell him to be real and ask what you can do to make him feel secure. My husband and I have been together for 4 years and married for 1 and I'd be hurt to my core so I'm so sorry he even came out of his mouth and said that to you.

@pnichole94, he claims he been told me I'm like uh no you didn't he was like I told I don't trust any body... I was like I'm not in the category with just anybody

@supermommy23, Exactly. You're not just anyone. You should be the one person he can trust & depend on. Yeah I would talk to him about it.

@bellahali, sucks I kinda understand just a tad bit beacuse his last girl friend was creeping with his bestfriend but I think it's so un fair on me too I've been done wrong by others too but I trust him completely now I feel dumb for trusting him and he don't trust me

@raegenice, he has always been inscure the whole relationship because his dumb ass ex screwed his Best friend and I was left with this damaged guy to try in fix but never did he tell me he didn't trust me I expected it beacuse he always checks my fb if a guy messages me he will open it and read it even though I ignore them guys so I know he's been on my fb so that's what made me ask and it seriously hurt my feelings knowing this guy I lay next to every night is expecting the worse from me

@pnichole94, I talked to him a little about it but I think I was so pissed I was coming off kinda harsh but like damn dude u claim you love me and I'm your best friend but you don't trust me smh I could of kicked him in the nuts

@supermommy23, but you're not her. you can pick up those pieces but you're not the one who broke him in the first place. sucks to say but it's true. He has reason at the same time that he doesn't. That's not fair on you😕Somehow, some way he needs some self assurance because after two children, it's really nonsense. You trust him and you're giving him all of you and I'm sure you've been hurt in the past, who hasn't? You deserve more from him and I hope he sees that.

@raegenice, exactly what I said I'm like who hasn't been hurt damn my ex bff fucked and got pregoo by this boy I really cared about you don't see Me taking it out on you! I honestly can't symptize with him when I've slept in the dark with him, been damn near homeless and hungry with him what more can a person do to prove there love and loyalty SMH he definitely needs to man t'f up and get over it lol

@supermommy23, lol he does! he better buck up because there's no relationship without trust. you can't go through all that with a person and not trust them. Come on now. That kind of talk would push me away from my husband with the quick fastness. Could have given your years to someone else if that's how it's gonna be.

@raegenice, definitely what I said and how I feel

@supermommy23, hope things get better