Well basically just told my SO if he doesn't get shit figured out and the kids & I moved then we are…

Shit figured out as in??

Lately he has been treating me like I mean nothing to him. So I told him decide if he wants the relationship to continue or not. @andrewsmommy

I feel it. My son is 4 months and I stay home with him. im 19. i had a job set up for me last year where I started off volunteering but once the boss found out I was pregnant she decided not to hire me anymore and I started to show so looking for a job I would only be with for 6 months before I would give birth was hard. I dont have a car or license right now either cause money is tight with me since no job and I got cut off of disability. So my SO complain I have no job and no car and he's not going to be paying for everything for our son and my mom does help she just took advantage with her taxes. she claimed me and the baby but won't give up the money. My dad gives me money too so whatever I get goes towards stuff for the baby. its just fustrating because he says I don't do shit. I take care of our son and make sure he's fed and safe thats wtf I do all day 24/7. I at least start community college in june

Exactly. Like I'm trying my hardest to take care of my son who is 1 and my daughter who is 1 month. I've only ever asked for money for the kid's twice. I feel bad asking because they are not his kids. I think that is part of our issue is the fact he is going to be supporting 2 babies that are not his. @andrewsmommy

Hmmm. Has he ever talked about having a baby of his own? Maybe he feels overwhelmed because he is supporting two babies that aren't his. This baby is my SO lol He just says "Oh you shouldn't be tired you get to lay in bed all day while I work" EXCUSE ME! I get up to make bottles in the middle of the night he just sits there! And hes closer to the fridge in the room! When we aren't at his house he gets to sleep all night I still get up to make bottles. We both live with our moms and sometimes his mom will even let the baby sleep with her which is amazing cause its like a break to me. i get a full night of sleep.

He wants kids but he gets overwhelmed kinda easy. With a toddler and infant I can see how it could be different. My SO and I live 2 hours apart so I do everything on my own. Freaked out that when and if the kids and I move in with him that it will still be like I'm living on my own with no help

I say give him some space to figure it out and he will come around.