Everyone around me is always saying "Girl, you better sleep when he sleeps" and at this point I always think to myself " Yeah okay🙄 it's sounds good. Easier preached than done.. I'm a first time mom, young and my baby occasionally chokes on his spit or throw up. How the hell do I bring myself to just fall asleep when it's just me and him or when someone is around but they're sleeping also(not an actual question).. I CAN'T and WON'T at this point. I'm just not comfortable with it😔 I just keep trying to keep a positive mindset and remind myself that he'll only be a newborn for a little while. I keep telling myself it'll get easier 😞 but all in all i love him more than anything in this world and I'm willing to go through anything for him, his health, safety and happiness.❤️
That's encouraging to hear and yeah i think I'm more than sure I only want one @val_brandon
I understand you! I'm not a first time mom and I'm older n I hear that too. I sit here n hold her or watch her when she sleeps because I can't sleep!
Once they get past 3 months things get super easy ☺️ i didnt want anymore after my first but i just love babies obv. 😂😂 Lol
Lol oh wow God bless your heart. I think this one is going to be my only child @val_brandon
Trust me it does get easier, and they grow so fast just enjoy what time you have when theyre little ☺️ before you know it theyre kids talking and running going to school 😭😭 lol
I have a 5 year old and a 6 month old im also 17 weeks preg and still don't sleep when they do 😂 its hard when there is so much to do when they sleep and then you forget,by the time you're tired they're up and ready to play lol
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...

Just curious, are there any other younger mums on here? I was 19 when I had Charlie, I'm 20 this coming Saturday but I get told a lot I look younger than I am 🙄
let's talk about porn.! lol
who's okay with their man watching it and who's not okay?
I myself get mad at my man for watching it when I first caught him when I was 15weeks told him how I felt. & he said its not like I'm cheating on you. but ever since he hasn't done it. I know for a fact because we share a phone lol but i. wouldn't mind watching it with him like how we used to before I got pregnant it made sex fun lol but its still fun just more interesting. just by our self is a no go. lol
My son keeps rolling over and sleeping on his stomach when he sleeps, should I turn him on his back or let him sleep how he wants?
You know what I hate about myself is that I always say I'm leaving him for good screw him this and that and then I start to miss him (knowing I deserve better) and fall into his arm again & it's to the point where I can't talk to no one about it because there be like shut up your goin to go back to him so I don't bother saying anything to anyone kus there right but I still feel the need to let it out you know
Yesssss. It's so difficult to feel comfortable going to sleep @knfletcher42