I hate being a single mom at times.. just because I want loyal man to love me for me and hold me at night.. it sucks that I didn't recognize I was being used until after finding out I was pregnant.. and yet then started being abused cuz I seemed lazy and that he didn't think it was his.. i needed to rant sorry I just want to feel loved and for my baby to have a father... so she could say my dad always loved my mom.. but dreams are only dreams... I hate being depressed. 😣😣
It's tough, I did it with my son. As much as your family and friends are there and care it's just not the same when you don't have a partner by your side. To hold you and kiss you. Mommies need love too. The best advice I can give is just to keep busy, keep your focus on yourself and one day you'll find someone who is worth your time. Learn from this experience and don't let it define who you are.
omg the "this isn't my kid" shit! my HUSBAND did that with our 7 year old the whole pregnancy and now again with this one! because he cheats he assumes I do too I guess, ugh!
good for you for not putting up with it! and also for not settling for anything except what you want in a man! You'll find him one day and be glad you waited :)
I was a single mom after I had my twins when I was 18. I now am engaged to a man that my kids know as daddy(their bio dad has had nothing to do with them for 1.2 years. my fiance has been in their life for 1 year...they are only 2) and we are expecting a little boy coming in july! Things will get better even if it may not seem like it right now! You can message me if you ever want to!
@indigenousmommy, @michellevaldez4750, @twinmommy123, @mommieofanangelbabie thanks for the responses/stories..& advices. It's uplifting knowing I'm not the only one, but all have you gotten through it so ik I can too.