Is it terrible that I'm scared I'm going to find out I'm having a boy? Babies father already has 2 boys and has pounded…
Is it terrible that I'm scared I'm going to find out I'm having a boy? Babies father already has 2 boys and has pounded it and pounded it in my head that we have to have a girl.. I have no control over that but I'm afraid if we find out it's a boy he won't want anything to do with the baby. I know it will all probably change once he sees the baby but it still scares me. Does that make me a bad mother?
Aimee·
В ожидании первенца
I was terrified of having a girl that it literally made me sick. I got my wish but I felt terrible that I wanted a boy so bad when all I should really want is a healthy, happy baby. I just could not see myself with a girl.
dylisha·
Мама двоих (1 год, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
I feel the same way sometimes. He has 2 girls and one boy and wants another boy. But he says as long as ita healthy he's fine with either. But I still worry.
Rebecca·
Мама сына-младенца
@babyhorton16, nope. baby has its gender when conceived, and its daddys fault. not yours. so just tell him that the next time he snaps at you. you're carrying his baby he doesn't need to snap at you for something that is his doing lol. my babys heart beat started off at 174, then dropped to 145 and stayed there and hes a boy, so the whole heart beat thing didnt work for me.
Carissa Dabbs·
I am perfectly happy with whatever we have, I'm just so so excited that I'm finally pregnant. But like today at the doctors, babies heartbeat was 145 so I was joking around saying we're having a boy and he gave me a dirty look, didn't say anything else the rest of the time we were in there, then when we got to the car, he snapped on me saying that if we end up having a boy it's all my f**king fault and that I need to learn to keep my damn mouth shut. @bekka1071
Rebecca·
Мама сына-младенца
of course not! pluss its the dads genes that decide that babies gender, so blame him lol.