I wish my mom would get off my ass about my daughters father! Ever since he has quit talking to me and even asking about…
I wish my mom would get off my ass about my daughters father! Ever since he has quit talking to me and even asking about the baby she has been on my ass saying I need to take him to court for child support once she's here!
Yeah maybe it would help me out on getting things for her, but I just don't want to have anything to do with him! && I don't want him to try and get visitations. I know it sounds bad, but he hasn't asked about her or anything so why should he get her on weekend or something!? I would NEVER keep her away if he was actually concerned about her and was back up here, but instead he left and went back to Indiana to be with his ex!! I had an ultrasound yesterday concerning the baby's heart and he didn't even bother to check about that or anything!!
Ashley Pichardo·
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its not any of my business but by law the father has rights so if he doesn't want to be around don't push him just make sure he doesn't sign the birth certificate because if he does when she's 3 be can take her and the police won't be able to do anything about it since he is her father.
Brittany·
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He won't be signing it. He isn't even gonna be there when she's born.
emily·
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Could you maybe ask him to sign his rights over? If you truly don't want anything to do with him and you don't think that will change it might be the best option. However I think (not positive) if you do that you cannot ask for child support in the future. But he would have no rights to the child at all, and that sounds like what you want. Is that something he would do? Sign over the rights? And definitely don't use his last name as your baby's, that will give him some control especially when she starts school. Good luck mama try not to stress too much
Brittany·
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I have no idea. He won't even speak to me at all and I don't try to push him to talk to me. It's been almost two month since I have heard from him. @emkasting
emily·
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Look into how to have him sign his rights over. That's terrible that he won't even speak to you, I'm so sorry. But I would either do that or take him to court once baby is born. But for now try and put it out of your mind as best you can. Nothing you can do right at this second anyways, pretty sure to even take him to court the child has to be born
Brittany·
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I'm not even worried about it. He's been to ONE doctor appointment and afterwards he bitched about it because all they did was listen to the baby's heartbeat but that was before I was very far along and he's been to TWO ultrasounds! As soon as we found out that the baby is a girl he completely changed and hasn't even bothered to go to ultrasounds or anything since the beginning of December and January was the last time he even asked about her! I've been perfectly fine since he hasn't been in the picture, but everyone is on my ass about child support and said I was stupid if I didn't take him to court for it. @emkasting
emily·
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You're not stupid if you don't take him to court for it. Not one bit. This is YOUR child and you decide what you need for her and what you don't. Don't listen to your mother or anyone else. I'm sure she just wants what's best for you and the baby but you know your situation best.
Sarah·
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my dad got equal visitation so he wouldn't have to pay anything
Brittany·
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I'm sure he isn't even gonna try for visitations since he is back in Indiana! Because when we were still living together he talked about how he missed his old job so I told him to go back and he said that was too far to take a baby or to even meet half way. @savvysmom