I kinda feel mean right now... So the boys asked for a snack, so I have them goldfish... Well every…

I kinda feel mean right now... So the boys asked for a snack, so I have them goldfish... Well every time I give them food the older one who is 9 has to immediately look at his brothers bowl/plate to see if he has as much as he does and makes a face. Well I think it might be my hormones but today it really bothered me so I went over and grabbed two gold fish and put them in his brothers bowl. Bad? I am tired of him not being appreciative for what he has...