So pissed at my BF. After one of his friends had a baby the other day, he started bringing up who will be at the hospital with us when I have my baby(not until August)!!! I already know who I want in the room with us and he wants to complain about the fact that the people he wants can't be in there(mostly because I won't allow his mom in there). I personally believe since I'm the one pushing the baby out that it should be who I want and feel comfortable with in the room...not who he wants. It's just one thing after another with him. Then he tells me all I'm thinking about is myself and not "us" and doing things the way I want and not what he wants when he is the one thinking all for himself and not even remotely about what I want...just what he wants. Sorry I have to think for what will help me and my baby and less on what will benefit him.
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Stay strong, it's your body, do what's best for you!!
That is what I keep telling him and he just gets even more mad. I'm near done with his games.
I think less people in the delivery room is best. I'm only having one support person. U don't want too much distraction.
its not his choice who comes in the room and the hospital won't let people in without your consent. so it doesn't matter what he says anyway.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
What does everyone think about this bed set? I think this is the one I want to get for Avery's room. ☺️💕
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Locking your doors
We are having a discussion on one of my birth boards from my older kids about locking doors and security alarms. There are many of us (me included) who do not lock our doors at home (I actually don't even have a deadbolt on my house and we don't lock it when we leave either), and others who think that's totally weird. So what do you do? Do you lock your doors? Do you think it's weird that people don't?
Birth Plan Rant
I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
My bf will be the only one in the room with me because I think there's already enough with the nurses and docs, don't need more people in the way!